Depends on how you look at the problem. Actually, I think the key lies in your husband's attitude.

Your mother-in-law had nothing to do with you. She is not related by blood and didn't know her before. Only after you married her son did you have a relationship with her. So your attitude towards her depends on your husband's attitude.

From your description, I don't think you have any reason not to like this. Maybe you have different living habits and different languages, but it's not your mother-in-law's fault. You didn't say she had any bad habits or distorted values. She didn't apologize to you. People buy things for you, you go back and cook more for them. This is extremely tolerant.

Your husband is very kind to you and accompanies you back to your parents' home to be filial to your parents almost every day. I think this may be the reason, conniving that you don't care about his parents' feelings at all, and you are not in the mood to manage the relationship with your in-laws.

On the other hand, just because your husband is kind to you, on the one hand, you have nothing to hide, on the other hand, you subconsciously feel that you have done something wrong.

I think you can know a little about your husband's attitude. If he has a bad relationship with his parents, it doesn't matter if you don't associate with them. But if he loves his parents as much as you love your parents, then his current effort is to tell you with facts: I will be filial to your parents when I marry you, and I hope you can be like me.

If you still can't do it, it depends on your husband's nature and patience

As for your mother's attitude, I think it's normal. Because of different positions, in-laws rarely have any contradictions and knots.

Why do you hate your in-laws so much now?

You have a good relationship with your mother-in-law, which means there is nothing wrong with both of you. It was only after the baby was born that the contradiction began.

But I think this contradiction is caused by your lack of communication and mutual understanding.

For example, you want your husband to go to bed with you, but your mother-in-law wants your husband to go to work. Maybe it's just that your mother-in-law thinks your husband can't help, so she just stands by and does nothing. It's better to go back and help. I think if your husband wants to be with you, he will stay. Or you can say it yourself. I don't think your mother-in-law will force your husband to go back.

Let your husband sleep with you in the future. I don't understand. Since you sleep with your husband, why don't you ask him to hold the baby for you? I took care of children, too. Most children are like this. Your children are not bad. Some children cry every three or two hours, and there is nothing they can do. That is the way to take care of children.

As for washing your hands after dancing and before holding the baby, I think you are a little too sensitive. The baby is small and immature, but not so cautious. If you are angry, I'm afraid your mother-in-law will be even angrier and think you are abandoning her. They don't help you with your children very much, in fact, there are your reasons!

It is common for children to stumble, so don't take it to heart. Maybe it's my first time as a mother. I'm a little at a loss, making a fuss, that's how everyone comes over. )

Does it matter whether your husband washes diapers and clothes or your mother-in-law? On the contrary, I think it's better to let my husband wash it. Doesn't that mean your husband loves you? If your mother-in-law washed it, you might wonder if it was your mother-in-law. The new mother is suspicious.

Over time, the contradictions have accumulated. Either your mother-in-law doesn't regard you as her own daughter, or she is probably her own daughter. It's just that mother and daughter can communicate easily. If you have any dissatisfaction, you can say it on the spot, or you can deliberately forbear your mother-in-law. But if you don't tell me, your mother-in-law is not Zhuge Liang, and she doesn't know.

I suggest that if conditions permit, you live separately for a while. You should calm down and think about these things again, and you may feel differently. -or, have a good talk with your mother-in-law, just like your mother, speak your mind, communicate with each other and resolve conflicts.

Treating her mother-in-law like a real mother is not only superficial efforts to cook and wash clothes for her mother-in-law, but also emotional communication!

What should I do if I don't like my in-laws?

In-laws are too fucked if they can't give it if they have the conditions, but if they really can't afford it, forget it. There is a saying in China that it is better to tear down ten temples than to break a marriage, so I can't instigate you to divorce, but what I want to say is, if life is really unhappy, don't force yourself. Of course, if you can handle it well, don't divorce. After all, you all have babies. If you remarry, it is difficult for your baby to get the same love as his biological father. Be patient for the sake of your child.

I wish you and your family a happy life! ! !

I hate my in-laws. What should I do?

Discuss with your husband and live separately. It's difficult to get along because of disharmony, but you still need basic obligations and manners.

I hate my mother-in-law What should I do?

I don't think you can resist her from the heart, in that case, it's easy to hate others. You can put your feelings for your mother-in-law. If you can't overdo it at once, you can take your time. For example, you treat her like a stranger first. In that case, we should be polite to strangers, so you should tell yourself that you should respect her. Then you treat her as an acquaintance, which means you should be very polite to her. Then you treat her as your friend, which means you should be friendly, then you treat her as a relative, which means enthusiasm, and finally you treat her as a mother, which means filial piety. Because you know how to respect her in your heart, you won't say anything drastic in any fierce occasion. Because you are polite, you will be tactful when dealing with contradictions. Because you are very friendly, you can often chat together. Because of your enthusiasm, you gradually like her. Because you are filial, you care about her. In short, I think the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not running in, which makes people feel very strange and reluctant.

What if I don't like my mother-in-law?

1, what can you do if you don't like your mother-in-law?

2. Try to improve the relationship between you, otherwise the relationship between you and your husband will expand to the contradiction between husband and wife because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

3, take care of yourself, you don't like your mother-in-law, aren't you afraid of your husband telling you that he doesn't like your mother? Therefore, to improve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the first thing to understand is what role you play in this family, daughter or daughter-in-law, or dual identity.

4. If conditions are good, move out alone.

Bless you, come on.

I hate my in-laws. What should I do? 10 point

Cold salad! ! ! Eternal question. No one can solve it. I mourn for your bottom line.

I especially hate my husband's parents-in-law. What should I do?

My mother-in-law is not annoying me, but disgusting. I'm pregnant and she's still trying to treat me. However, I don't care about her, because there is a generation gap of 1, the gap between cultural values and outlook on life, and she is afraid that you will come to her house to listen to your position. There's a reason for this. Most importantly, you should know how to go against the wind, and you should do what they hate and don't have to do. Everyone and your husband will naturally understand that you are biased against you. I hope you can refer to it. I am a woman, too. I hope you are happy!

What should I do if I don't like getting along with my parents-in-law? 5 points

As the saying goes, love me, love my dog. Since you choose to marry your husband, it means that he has something you like, so the environment in which he grew up will not be very dependent. It is natural for them to take care of their son, just as your parents take care of you more, so be calm. You are better to your husband, and your mother-in-law and father-in-law will naturally be good to you. Work hard!

What should I do if I hate my mother-in-law extremely? 100 integral

1, in fact, sometimes the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in different places is even more difficult. After all, many times customs have become barriers.

2. If you are willing to take care of the children, you can actually wait for the children to attend the early education class, that is, it will be more troublesome to pick them up, or if the family conditions are good, you can hire a nanny.

3. Your mother-in-law is stronger. Naturally, sometimes she takes care of her children in the way of raising children in the countryside. Naturally, she will not take into account the concern for children in many situations in society today. Sometimes you are stupid, you should tell your husband how you handle it. Don't tell me your husband's cultural knowledge is not high. Make it clear to him, and then let him talk to his mother. It will be better than your confrontation.

4, you hate her, in fact, there are some tendencies to look down on your mother-in-law, that is, in the child's diet, as well as your mother-in-law's strength, that is because the meat fell from yourself, of course, very distressed. If there are some accidents, I will naturally think that my mother-in-law's contribution to her children is actually not as important as yours, so I feel distressed and blame.

In any case, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a science. If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can live in harmony and become their own parents, it will not be like this.

If you really think that your mother-in-law is not as good as you think, ask your own parents to take care of the children and give them some money. Children are actually not a burden, but will bring happiness to the elderly.

7. Don't worry about these things. Many times communication is the key to solving problems. The key is to see how you communicate.