First of all, after children enter the early education class, they artificially create a sense of comparison, which invisibly brings a sense of urgency to parents, which in turn brings pressure to children. Because individual genes and birth environment are different, it is impossible for two children in the world to develop exactly the same. There are always some children who develop faster, speak earlier and know more. Once they see these so-called "excellent" children, parents will definitely feel a sense of urgency and anxiety. If your heart is not strong enough and you are unbalanced in the pursuit of comparison, you will pass on this sense of urgency to your children, and do everything possible to "overweight" your children, so that they can make up lessons and try to catch up with other children as soon as possible.