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1, positive psychological suggestion
Ge Jie, a famous educator, said: Praise is the cheapest, the best and the most effective, but it is also the most easily overlooked method to stimulate learning motivation.
4 to 15 years old is an important period for children's self-confidence. At this time, children need the guidance, encouragement and recognition of their parents most, and parents are the most critical people to cultivate their self-confidence.
Giving children positive psychological hints and encouragement will have unexpected effects on children.
Of course, if you label your child positively, she will naturally develop in a positive direction; You label your child negatively and call him stupid. Of course, she has no self-confidence and has become what you call a "silly child".
2. Give children rich experiences
Let children experience more games and performances, and deal with them in time if they don't perform well. This is also his first effort, and they will understand that it takes persistence and hard work to do a good job. Every child needs to experience setbacks, hardships and failures, and then continue to grow and change. He will face up to any big difficulties. Because he has experienced it, he will be braver and more determined.
3. Cultivate children's specialties
Not only children, but also adults should have a skill to improve their ability to resist setbacks and pressures. The ability is strong, and self-confidence comes with it.
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The key to the cultivation of children's ability lies in parents, calm down, take your time and stick to it. Time will give you the best feedback, and your Mengbao will be exceptionally excellent. ?
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