The first one: preparation period
This period reflects the attitude of father towards mother. During this period, expectant mothers will feel panic and expectation. At the same time, it is also hard. With the aggravation of endocrine disorders, the children in the belly will grow sturdily, and the mother's emotions will alternately appear joy and anxiety. Can a husband be a father at this time? It's important to aim at your mother, otherwise she will easily be disheartened, disappointed, feel even worse, and think that this husband is simply unreliable. This kind of emotion will directly affect the postpartum mental health of pregnant mother and your future marriage relationship.
Second: confinement
This period reflects the attitude of the husband's family towards the mothers, and it can also be seen whether the two families can be integrated. For example, some parents-in-law prefer boys to girls, and ignore them when they see their daughters. Some parents-in-law talk about taking care of the month, but actually force their mothers to drink milk soup and so on. My mother is very fragile during confinement. It may also be postpartum depression, and the mood is particularly prone to collapse. At this time, the role of the husband is really important. Can he let his wife sit comfortably for the second month? Can he handle the relationship between the two families? If he doesn't handle it well, will his wife's postpartum depression develop into real depression, and it will also affect the subsequent small family.
Third: the child is about a week.
This period is very important, because it reflects whether the views of husband and wife on education and life are consistent, children begin to walk, that is to say, early education can be started, and there are some other educational activities. Then there will be many contradictions and frictions between husband and wife because of their children's education. One wants his children to grow up happily and healthily. If they want their children to succeed, whether they can find a balance and reach an agreement requires the wisdom and communication skills of both sides, otherwise it will easily make the other side feel different. If you can get through these three stages safely, there is really nothing more difficult in the future.