A few days ago, Ai Jiang had tea with some sisters whom I haven't seen for a long time. When they talk about parenting, they can't stop (single Ai Jiang means unable to get in a word ...)
Novice mothers have their own views on their children's education. Some people say that children should go to early education and their ability should be cultivated from an early age; Others think that parents' company is the most important thing. ...
I don't know much about children's education, but I recently heard the story of a hot mom Duan Jinxi and her lovely Wahaha (some people think the name "haha" is cute).
The 3-year-old baby actually traveled 50 times!
Haha, although the child is only 3 years old this year, he has traveled with his mother for more than 50 times.
Haha, I have been traveling with my mother since I was seven months old. In three years, I have been to Tianjin, Shanghai, Hangzhou, Suzhou, Nanjing, Kunming, Dali, Shenzhen, Sanya, Shanxi, Qingdao, Japan, Korea, Thailand, Hong Kong, Macau and Taiwan Province Province.
Experienced different modes of transportation such as plane, cruise, self-driving, high-speed rail, train and subway. It is also a little "traveler".
Of course, haha, the way mom takes care of the baby has also been questioned a lot:
"Does the child really remember where he has been?"
"Is it really meaningful to take such a young child on a trip?"
"Isn't it the most important for children to have regular work and rest and a stable environment?"
"Too much tossing!"
Is it really meaningful to take the baby on a trip?
In the face of doubts, Haha Ma believes that every trip with a baby is an early education course.
"When children have the greatest potential, helping children to open their five senses is what parents should spend more time and energy on. The role of heart is greater than money."
Compared with how many things a child remembers and learns in a trip, what is more important is his joy and surprise when he first sees clouds, sea and flowers!
These are all things that children can't intuitively feel in textbooks.
Haha, mom also said that traveling will make a family an excellent team.
"After a journey, we suddenly found that there are fewer quarrels and less entanglements. We all seem to have more love ability than before, and we have the power to resolve the immediate collapse with great tolerance."
The significance of traveling is not what you remember and where you have been, but the mutual companionship and growth of your family during the journey.
At this point, some people may raise their hands and ask: they are not short of money or idle. Who doesn't know how to have fun? Where does the travel money come from? Where does the travel money come from?
So, is it really that difficult to take Eva on a trip?
About the cost of travel
For ordinary families, the pain point of travel is money!
Haha, the family is not poor, but it is not very rich. Haha, mom's practice is to use other people's spending cards to enroll children in early education classes and amusement centers, book money for children to teach early education, take Haha to travel, and try to save travel expenses.
About the time of travel
During the tourist season, many parents also feel the need to take their babies to travel, but they often feel too busy to have time.
But for most people, they can enjoy legal holidays of different lengths every year: Spring Festival, National Day, two 7 days; Qingming, May Day, Dragon Boat Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival, 4 days; New Year's Day is 1 day, and the weekend year is about 100 day. After working for 5 years, at least 5 days paid annual leave.
If you are a teacher or a non-local employee, you have an extra winter and summer vacation and family leave. Use these holidays every year, go to some places you want to go, and even travel around the world in a few years.
Take the Haha family as an example. When they have a holiday, they will go on a long trip. If there is no holiday, they will go to Zhou Bianyou at the weekend. Even if the family goes to the park, it's not bad.
Take the baby on a high-quality trip.
It's not as difficult as you think.
Of course, for most people, there is no need to travel "frequently" like the Haha family. Once or twice a year, a high-quality trip with a baby is actually enough.
For children's growth, feeling intimate company is the ability to cultivate happiness.
Moreover, the most precious time with children is before junior high school. Take advantage of the youth, take advantage of the children's absence, make a pleasant trip to a distant place, and let the whole family enjoy a happy time together.
For example, you can arrange a high-quality trip to Hainan for your children during the remaining summer vacation and Mid-Autumn National Day. Sanya is one of the most suitable places to travel with babies. The air ticket is not expensive, so it takes about three to five days to get in touch with the mountains and seas, increase your knowledge and broaden your horizons.
Moreover, if you choose a good hotel, traveling with your baby may be more enjoyable than staying at home for the weekend.