There are two main views on this:
From my mother:
I'll take him in. As a mother, if someone gives me a bad look or scolds me, I can bear it, but what I can't bear is that something happens to him. In case he gets lost and is taken away in the past few minutes ... I'll go crazy. ...
Others send:
I can understand, after all, the safety of children is more important. What makes me disgusted or want to protest is the following two situations:
1, take older boys into the ladies' room. If it is a child of two or three years old, it is nothing. After all, the child is still young. But if I still take it to the ladies' room at the age of six or seven, I feel very uncomfortable. Because children know everything at this age, as a girl, it is impossible not to express disgust at this phenomenon.
Some little boys are dishonest, for example, he will look through the gap below. Usually meet such a boy, his parents won't care.
Indeed, it is the boy's behavior that causes people's anger, not taking the boy into the ladies' room.
So what should parents, especially mothers, do in response to this inevitable phenomenon? I think this parent's answer is very good:
I will restrain his behavior, let him stand by me and don't look around. If there is no door in the toilet, he will close his eyes and be taken in when he goes to the toilet. I will try not to embarrass others and give them no trouble.
Taking boys into the ladies' room, on the surface, is a violation of women's rights and interests, but it also has a negative impact on the children themselves. Parents always think that children of a few years old don't know anything, but in fact, gender awareness education that is different between men and women should be carried out from the age of 2.
At the age of 2, children begin to have the bud of gender awareness and enter the "gender cognition period", so they can distinguish the gender of themselves from those around them. In the early stage of children's growth, especially before the age of 5, if children are not given corresponding gender education, it is likely that gender awareness will be blurred, roles will be confused, and the boundaries between men and women will be unclear, which will have great hidden dangers in future life.
Dad, can you go to the bathroom with me? "About this kind of event.
The crooked rabbit in the story can't hold back and wants to pee in public. Persuaded by his father, he finally went to the toilet and wanted his father to accompany him to the ladies' room. Through this story, let children understand the concept of "privacy", teach them to protect their own bodies and privacy, and at the same time respect others' bodies and privacy, and cultivate a healthy sense of shame, which is an important part of children's socialization and an important prerequisite for self-protection.
This picture book belongs to the newly revised series of picture books on sexual health care of crooked rabbits. There are 8 books in this set, which are suitable for children aged 2-6. The eight themes enlighten children in a scientific, comprehensive and progressive way. Give children a systematic early sex education to help parents easily deal with the "embarrassing" problem.
From these eight themes, we can see that children's sexual health education includes gender identity, life and gestation, getting rid of improper attachment, protecting privacy and preventing sexual assault. Every aspect is very important, which has an important influence on children's physical development, healthy growth and psychological development, and even these aspects are of great significance to the establishment of children's future world outlook and outlook on life.
These eight themes are all problems that parents will encounter in their lives. Mom, I want to marry you when I grow up. It's about excessive attachment. This story tells that Wei, who goes to kindergarten, must eat his mother's milk before going to bed every day, and then he must touch his mother's breasts and sleep with her. This is actually a manifestation of excessive attachment.
In view of this behavior, this book also has some methods and suggestions on parenting guidance. Parents can try the following methods:
Don't treat children like babies.
Let children form the habit of sleeping alone.
Let children have more contact with other relatives and cultivate a wide range of family ties.
Let children make more friends and cultivate friendship. In this way, you are not alone in the child's world, and his sense of security is not based on you. When the sense of security increases, the boundaries of children's world will widen and they will gradually become independent.
This set of books starts with stories suitable for parents in China, avoiding being too blunt and straightforward, so that parents can tell stories to their children more smoothly. The eight themes also come from the law of children's psychological development, combining the first-line experience of a large number of members' parents in the education of crooked rabbits, and solving many problems accurately.
This set of books was immediately recognized by professionals and strongly recommended by People's Daily. It was awarded the title of "Children's Favorite Book" by Dangdang, and was included in the "Sina China Best Book List". It has been selling well for nine years, and this time it is upgraded on the basis of the best-selling version.
Every book is equipped with a column of "Parents' College" to let parents know the science behind education and guide their children in a more scientific way.
If you want children to know the mystery of life, learn to protect themselves, prevent sexual assault, and let Ta have a happy and healthy life, take a look at this set of children's sexual health care picture books of crooked rabbits!