Different views on babies between China and Britain.
In China, children's childhood is often regarded as a very difficult period, but not in Britain. They enjoy their children's infancy very much, and they think this time is precious. Because they think that children's growth is a process of going to society, they always try their best to make family life with children wonderful. I don't know whether this culture has created the social business model and system, or whether the social model has created the culture. In short, chicken lays eggs, and eggs lay chickens, which are passed down from generation to generation.
Women in British families
I don't know what kind of family life every woman in the west yearns for. The word innocent girl seems useless. From pregnancy and childbirth to raising children, we should do everything ourselves and learn a lot about parenting and early education. Only scientific parenting and management can better manage family life and help children reach the standards required by the early education syllabus. Mom is not only a nanny, but also a child-rearing expert and an early education teacher. At the same time, due to her children's rich social activities, she had to become a baker, event planner and family operation manager. However, many social systems provide convenience for British mothers, such as flexible working hours (choosing suitable working hours or shortening working hours) or leaving work without pay. These policies aim to help mothers spend more time at home when they are young, while protecting women's careers. In a word, an independent family view has created an independent and capable woman. Whether she is a full-time mother or not, her husband just thinks that this is a kind of family division of labor and cooperation, and the relationship is equal, so women will naturally be respected.
Men in English families
British men are only bound by their families when they get married. Especially after having children, grandparents' help is limited, and it is more expensive to hire a nanny. How can a man watch his wife take care of more than two children, and sometimes add a dog, so everyone has to become a child-rearing expert. Most British men, regardless of their occupation, try their best to spend time with their small families. They will try to read some books to their children before going to bed every day. If they are too busy at work, they will make up for it at the weekend. Every year, national holidays and free holidays on 25th will be what they have to spend with their wives and children. Even social activities in leisure time have become a family-based social way. It's really hot for my wife and children.
Beckham's family is always the envy of countless people. Beckham's image of Xiao Qi sets a new standard for new cool men. Zhang Ziyi was once asked on a talk show who was her favorite star, and she said it was Beckham. Victoria was not successful then. Ziyi's answer is not how handsome and successful Beckham is, but that even in major public occasions, his gestures will show his concern and respect for Victoria. Beckham really represents a kind of masculinity created by family values, and his wife and children are more important than this world.
Business model of British families
Before I got married and had children, I also complained about the British business model. Busy commercial streets usually close at 5 o'clock, and everything will be depressed at 3 or 4 o'clock on Sunday I once went to Germany on business and arrived early. I want to go shopping, but I don't want to be more ruthless. All commercial streets are closed from Saturday afternoon to Sunday. I didn't understand it before. I didn't understand until I got home. I should enjoy family life at night and on weekends. Shopping is unfair to children. The traditional Sunday lunch in Britain is aimed at family gatherings, including family gatherings. This tradition is like a festival where family members enjoy communication, but it is an indispensable part of life that is established more frequently than festivals.
In Britain, people with families don't go out much at night, and occasionally go out to get together with friends, but they are all husband and wife. Stay at home alone and watch the children go out alone. If both of them want to go out, they must find foreign aid. On weekends, family life in Britain can be described as colorful. The British business structure also shows the family-oriented structure everywhere, and the men and women created by the British family view. Sports and adventure are always the themes of British family life. No matter where you go, every family member will not become an accessory. For example, we take our 3-year-old twins to a country park. At first, the whole family can exercise by walking or cycling, and then we can take our children to outdoor activities. The activities in this activity area are suitable for children of all ages, and there is catering next to it, so parents can sit comfortably outside and enjoy afternoon tea. Not only country parks, but also all family life parks in Britain, including farms, zoos and playgrounds, are the same model, which fundamentally improves the quality of family life.
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British men and women who choose to get married and have children are ready for this family life. No one sacrificed for anyone, just enjoying another life. Children will gradually establish such a family view in the process of enjoying a beautiful childhood. This is education.