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Didn't you inspire her to read? Of course not.
Since she had a fetal movement in my stomach, my father insisted on telling her stories before going to bed every night. At that time, as soon as she heard her father's voice, she would swim around happily.
After I was born, whenever I have time, I will tell her stories and read Tang poems. Story machine will turn on the phone every day, and his ears will grind regularly 1 hour.
Under this influence, the language development of Atom is not bad. At present, I am less than one and a half years old, and I have begun to speak Chinese four-word or five-word sentences, English phrases such as sitting down, and some simple words in French.
Seeing that she will be two years old, there is an urgent need to help her systematically establish a reading system.
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Although I have been telling her stories and reading picture books, we have a small number of Chinese books that I read repeatedly. Many of them have been fragmented and unrecognizable.
Atom's hobby is to tear off a book and read it repeatedly in his hand until he can't find the right place to read it.
However, in terms of quantity, these are far from enough.
Compared with the online rumor that we read 200 books before the age of two and 1000 books before the age of three, we don't even have a fraction.
Sometimes, I am glad to see the atom sitting there quietly, absorbed in turning pages. The anxiety of the old mother is even more serious.
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You know, in France, it is very inconvenient to buy Chinese books, especially children's story books or picture books. Not only is it expensive, but it's hard to find, and it's hard to find it.
Visionary friends usually choose to bring them from China, or ask someone to bring a few copies by the way. Books are not as easy to get as other things. Either one is too heavy to carry too much.
We accepted the books of friends who came back to China, tried to exchange books with friends with children, and looked for second-hand bookstores where we could find Chinese books, but we couldn't completely solve my anxiety.
Therefore, when our friends in China envy us that we can send such a small atom to the nursery and receive bilingual education in France, I also envy them. The domestic mobile Internet is so convenient. Like the Double Eleven, it is easy to store dozens and hundreds of books.
I also saw that during the Double Eleven, the mothers in this group discussed buying 60 or 70 kilograms of Chinese documents from China and waiting for mailing. I'm touched, too, but what if we return to China next year?
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Wait a little longer, and we will know the result in three months.
I am obsessed with building a reading system for Atom, not how many books I have to read for how long. I don't have such a utilitarian mentality to cultivate Atom into a "Niu Wa".
Just because there were some confused and depressing moments in my growing experience, it took me many years to get out. My parents didn't know that I had gone through these years and only saw a superficial decline in my grades.
I am glad that I finally succeeded in saving myself and walked out of the bottomless whirlpool.
Looking back now, my parents didn't answer my questions in time, and I myself lacked the wisdom to untie the knot of my thoughts. It took me five or six years to get out completely.
Later, I found that I paid a heavy price for time, and the experience I gained may be lying gently in a book.
If I had read that sentence earlier and understood this truth, I would be better than now.
Read more and take fewer detours. It is my practical experience in the first 30 years, and I hope I can try my best to help Atom take less unnecessary detours.