However, the reason why children encounter all kinds of problems in kindergarten is actually because their parents did not make corresponding preparations before going to kindergarten.
The children of my best friend Xiao Ning went to kindergarten last year. In the first half of kindergarten, Xiao Ning took her baby to some early education classes, thinking that children should be able to adapt to kindergarten life well.
However, what Xiao Ning didn't expect was that her children cried and made trouble on the first day of kindergarten, and it took a long time to integrate into kindergarten life.
As a result, the child has not been in kindergarten for two months and is tired of learning. They don't want to get up every morning. As long as the word kindergarten is mentioned, the children begin to cry, which makes Xiao Ning very devastated.
Then, the performance of children in Xiao Ning may appear on children who attend kindergarten for the first time, and besides, there are some possible problems that need parents' special attention, so that they can make corresponding preparations in advance before their children go to kindergarten.
0 1 What might happen to children when they go to kindergarten for the first time? When many children go to kindergarten for the first time, there will often be various situations, some of which will be exposed on the first day of departure, while others will take two or three months to appear.
Therefore, in the first few months of children's kindergarten, it is normal for parents to be too nervous if the following situations occur.
1) Children cry all kinds.
Usually, on the first day of kindergarten, children cry like children in Xiao Ning. Children cry mostly because of anxiety and fear in their hearts. I don't know why my parents want to send themselves to kindergarten, so I will have such a performance.
Then some children are influenced by other children, so they cry, but it's easier to coax.
Usually, children's crying will last for a few days to half a month, until the children gradually adapt to kindergarten life, and this performance will gradually disappear. Therefore, parents need not worry too much. As long as we find the reason why children cry, we can usually solve the problem well.
2) Children are unsociable in kindergarten.
Every child's growing environment is different, so there are differences in personality. Some children will be more outgoing and likable in class, so they will be more successful in interpersonal communication.
Some children are introverted and may not be good at expressing their emotions, so there may be some problems when dealing with others because they don't know how to express their ideas.
This makes some children seem unsociable in kindergarten, and even feel that they have been subjected to cold violence and have no children to play with them, so parents must pay attention to this problem.
3) Children are not suitable for kindergarten life.
Then some children who have been in kindergarten for a while, about two or three months, will suddenly have resistance to kindergarten and are unwilling to go to kindergarten. This is probably because children don't adapt to kindergarten life.
Because there are still some differences between kindergarten and home, such as eating, going to the toilet, taking a nap and so on. There may be changes, so some children can't adapt completely and even make them feel very painful.
The reason why children will not adapt to this kind of performance after two or three months is actually because many children are interested in many things when they first enter kindergarten.
However, when the novelty fades, they may have various maladjustments and produce some resistance.
Before children go to kindergarten, parents need to make these preparations in advance, otherwise it will be difficult for children to enter the park, because children will have various situations, so parents must make a series of preparations in advance if they want to avoid it.
The following preparatory work, if parents can do well, will make children adapt to kindergarten life more and reduce many problems.
★ Psychological preparation
The reason why many babies cry on the first day of entering the park is actually because parents have not prepared their children psychologically, so parents need to make full preparations in advance.