My daughter is ordinary, not Niu Wa. I just hope that when she goes to school, she won't be much worse than others.
When I was about two or three years old, I started reading.
When she was four years old, she would be taught to read simple ancient poems when she had time to help her understand Chinese characters and cultivate some cultural qualities. When I was about five years old, I bought a book "Primary school students must recite Tang poems" and began to read it every night (before going to bed), hand in hand, word for word. At this time, I can almost know one or two hundred Chinese characters, so it is not particularly difficult to teach.
At the same time, I began to read Saint Amethyst.
It happened that I started teaching Pinyin in the big class and the garden, and it became easier and easier to teach my daughter to read poetry. 000 is basically to correct pinyin and read difficult sentences once or twice.
It took a whole year to basically read the three-character classic, because I often asked her to review it, and now she can recite almost the whole text.
The literacy and sense of language brought by reading the three-character classics are really amazing, and I have learned a lot about people, stories, dynasties and so on, which can be said to have benefited a lot.
However, Saint Amethyst in the strict sense is not a classic of Chinese studies. Recommended for enlightenment, not suitable for long-term reading. Personally, I feel a little better than the dogmatic disciple rule.
The progress of Tang poetry is slow.
"Pupils must recite Tang poems" is not much, less than 100, but it has been used for nearly two years. After all, five words and seven words are not as good as Three Amethyst, and Tang poetry is difficult to understand. Many poems are just read and recited, and they don't understand poetry at all. Type, background, image, etc.
After grade one, I added a book "University" and "New Concept English Book One" to my bedtime reading.
It took a year to finish college, and now I can recite almost the whole text.
Learn only one or two sentences a week, and then review all the time. This doesn't require much, just a sense of language.
I didn't pay much attention to practicing calligraphy, and now I regret it.
When I was a child, the kindergarten teacher always stressed not to teach children to write, so she followed the teacher's advice.
Because I like writing myself, my daughter watches me write, and sometimes I write with her.
It was not until the first semester of high school that she began to pay attention to her calligraphy practice.
From then on, whenever she has time, she will be asked to write an article.
Reading classics before going to bed every day, if you start with St. Amethyst, it has been more than three years, about ten minutes a day.
What I have read now is as follows:
Everything can be operated independently except English teaching. When she has read it for a certain number of times, she will feel that she can almost recite it and move forward automatically. This is really good!
After all, I have been in the second grade, and it only takes me ten minutes to finish reading these contents every day, because I ask for very little. My goal is simple, habit, persistence, a sense of accomplishment, and I can't bore my children. I don't expect her to be as good as Chen and Wu Yishu, just keep up with most of her peers.
Ancient prose, poetry, reading and writing exercises are all accumulation, and only by persisting for a very long time can they be effective.
Let's cheer together.
Let me talk about how Brother Bao insisted on practicing calligraphy, reading in the morning, chanting scriptures and writing thousands of words for two months during the epidemic closed!
1. Every day at seven o'clock, I will ask Brother Bao to get up first and recite a textbook they are learning, which will take about 30 minutes. I can't recite, but I can read well. Consolidate it before going to bed and you can recite it.
2. I will read spoken English at around 7: 30, and read a few short sentences with the video. Sometimes I read aloud with him.
We usually have breakfast from 8: 00 to 9: 00, and then they begin to have a webcast class. When there was no class before, I began to talk about new classes. 10 or so, there are math classes, Chinese classes and English classes.
4. Generally do exercises in the afternoon, and do exercises in the morning and afternoon, which can be consolidated in time. We bought Huanggang Little Champion as study materials!
Usually he takes a lunch break when he is sleepy. If he is not sleepy, he won't sleep. When he has a rest, he will play with toys. He can't go out to play at special times, so he can only entertain himself at home.
Generally, you will practice at 5-6 o'clock 15-20 minutes. No matter how well you write, you will get the goods as long as you insist.
7. I will keep a diary of two sentences every day. This habit has been going on for almost a year. This is what their teacher asked before, just one sentence a day, as long as I insist on it every day.
8. I will read him a poem before going to bed, and then I will recite it after listening to it several times. This situation has been going on for almost a month. During the epidemic, adults have time to spend with their children.
The above is what I arranged for the children. I don't know when the epidemic will end and when it will be unsealed!
My child is in the first grade. What I insist on every day is reading books and practicing calligraphy.
Practice calligraphy in the next semester of the big class. It was difficult at first, and it was difficult for children to calm down. I remember preparing two pens for her, horizontal and vertical. As a result, I only practiced horizontally for more than ten minutes, and then I couldn't sit still when I practiced vertically. This makes me understand that the children in kindergarten are still young, and their endurance and concentration time are limited. We must not rush into it, but we must follow the rhythm of the children and take it slowly bit by bit. After practicing basic strokes, I began to teach simple words. Not much, one a day. After doing this for a month, I found that the child's understanding ability, pen control ability and endurance have all improved, from one word to three words a day, and then step by step. Now I can write more than 100 words in 40 minutes, and I don't have to modify them. It really proves that "dripping water wears away the stone". Practice calligraphy with children every day, experience 1. Don't worry, don't compare progress with other children, practice one before moving on to the next. 2. There are ways. It is best to practice one knowledge point a day. For example, today's words are all single words, and I mainly practice finding the main pen. Then don't add words with left and right structures. Because what you need to pay attention to when writing words with left and right structures is different. Practicing a knowledge point every day is more helpful to strengthen children's memory. 3. Practice effectively. Just make sure that the child is serious when practicing. As long as it is not serious, it should be corrected in time and punished when necessary, and it cannot be left unchecked.
My children's independent reading started late, starting from the first grade. At first, I didn't care too much about reading. I think as long as I read fluently, I don't care whether she understands it or not. It was not until I had time to read with her during the winter vacation that I found that she couldn't repeat the general meaning of the story after reading it once, and she didn't want to let her watch it again. I realized that children read books every day not because they like stories, but to complete the reading clock arranged by the school. Only then do I feel that a semester's "reading" is invalid, because the child doesn't read at all, but only mechanically reads the words she sees. After communicating with my child, I realized that she didn't want to understand when she was reading, and there was no picture based on words in her mind, so she didn't think the story was very interesting. In view of this, I have recently started to accompany my children when they are studying. Read the story to the children first. I find that she always listens to stories carefully. I can see that she is thinking while listening. I wonder why she can understand the same story when listening to me, and imagine the scene described in the story while listening, but she can't when reading it herself. She doesn't know it herself. Fortunately, though, after accompanying her for several times, she herself found the story in the book quite interesting, so now I don't have to accompany her, so I read it by myself, thinking while watching it, and rereading what I don't understand. I also bought her a lovely notebook and made reading notes for her. That's what little girls do When she saw a beautiful notebook, she became interested in taking notes and didn't feel tired.
I've talked a lot. In a word, it is not only persistence, but also methods and efficiency, so persistence is meaningful.
The following are the results of my daughter's writing practice and reading.
A family has a daughter who goes to high school and thinks that persistence is also a good habit. Children can cultivate this ability when they are young and will benefit a lot when they grow up. Good habits can benefit people for life.
Our second girl is in a big class this year. She has been reading Disciples' Rules, San Zi Jing, Qian Zi Wen and The Analects since she was three or four years old. The first thing I read was Disciples Rules, which is very suitable for children. Mainly to accompany me to read, not books. Read four to six sentences every day, at night, and twice before going to kindergarten in the morning, and you will be familiar with it.
I think it is also meaningful to borrow some of the children's behavior norms in Disciple Rules and tell her about their daily behavior. Children are also very interesting to listen to.
Later, I finished reading three-character classics and thousands of words one after another, and began to read and recite The Analects of Confucius when I was in the big class. To tell you the truth, it's the first time I've seen these things systematically.
In order to have a deeper understanding. Disciples' Rules and Three-Character Classics not only let the children read them with me, but also listened to Professor Qian Zhongshu's explanation. Thousands of words didn't find the interpretation version of Professor Qian, so I paid to listen to Haoran's father speak thousands of words. Not bad either. The Analects of Confucius is a children's edition. Basically, we choose some familiar, common and easy-to-understand principles.
This semester, in the two books of Tang Poetry and Yuan Qu, children chose Tang Poetry and Song Poetry and read one every day. Under the epidemic situation, they didn't go to kindergarten, so they chose Li Weng's Enlightenment on Rhythm as their reading task this school year.
Now I take turns reading Tang poems and Li Weng's rhymes every day. Because her literacy is still limited, she should basically be taught to recite more after she is familiar with it. Read the poems you have read before every morning to review.
Reading, the middle class began, and since the big class set up a clock, the children have been reading every day. Today has arrived 160. From a few picture books to a few short picture books.
Punch reading has changed from simple to complex. I didn't have much literacy at first. The kind of picture books specially bought have gradually transitioned to the big books that children say, such as Aesop's Fables. Now I can do basic independent reading, and I like Father and Son best. She has read them from front to back and from back to front n times.
Besides reading, listening to books is also a child's hobby. The little peas in The Little Peas by the Window are children's favorite characters. Now they have listened to it for five thousand years. Haoran's father tells Li Wengyun, and the Tang poems in Chinese are all stories with strong plots, which children especially like.
When I was young, I had enough time to read and recite classics intensively. In junior high school and senior high school, except for most of the children selected in the textbook, I basically had no time to read intensively, let alone recite.
Most importantly, these classics can guide children's behavior norms. The story of changing the dynasty lets children know that water can carry a boat and overturn it. Let the children know about the tragic events of the Chinese nation along the way, appreciate the tenacious vitality of the Chinese nation, and establish the national pride that I am a China person. It feels good, too. Next, children will be asked to read paper for five thousand years.
Practice writing before going to primary school. There is plenty of time to practice in advance under the epidemic situation. Scientific explanation In principle, large classes can hold pens and write in the next semester, which will affect the growth and development of children's hand bones prematurely. Exam-oriented education requires practicing calligraphy, and good calligraphy can make your composition score more points under the same conditions.
Whether reciting poems, reading in the morning or reading, learning knowledge is not too important for children, and knowledge is inexhaustible. No matter how early you learn. There is no limit to learning the sea.
The most important thing is to cultivate children's various abilities through the media of reciting poems, reading early and reading. Such as memory ability, thinking ability, persistence ability, learning ability and so on. These abilities can not be formed simply by reciting a few poems, reading them several times earlier and reading them for a few days. It takes a long time to form.
So some primary schools rely on parents, middle schools rely on teachers, and high schools rely on their own opinions. How annoying children are when they are young, but not when they are old. Parents also have a shelf life. I hope parents can exercise their rights as well as possible within the shelf life, and don't wait until it expires.
Children in this period are playful, and many children are unwilling to learn, not to mention reciting ancient poems, reading early and practicing calligraphy every day. Although children can't do it, as parents, they will inevitably be anxious and don't want their children to lose at the starting line. Will give children a variety of remedial classes. I will also tutor my children at home and supervise them to recite ancient poems and read early every day.
School can't start yet. When I officially go to school, my daughter will arrive at school early every day and have a 20-minute morning reading at school. Now at home, I will let him get up early every morning, and he will do morning reading when I cook.
Reading:
My daughter likes listening to stories since she was a child, and she has a habit until now. As long as it's not study time, you should listen to stories, and you must listen to stories before going to bed every night. Now I'm in grade one, and I've learned to recognize many words and pinyin. Start reading by yourself. Every weekend, I also take my children to the library to read.
Recently, the library has also been opened. Besides studying at home, the little guy reminds me to make an appointment to borrow books from the library every day. Because a reader can only borrow three books at a time. Now is a special period, the library is a relatively closed space, and you can only borrow books to read. So now you have to make an appointment in advance every day.
Practice writing:
Speaking of practicing calligraphy, I remembered that my daughter had enrolled herself in a calligraphy class. I didn't think of this, because I usually signed up for dancing, painting and pottery classes. There is no spare time to learn anything else.
My daughter knows my mobile phone number. After school that day, she saw someone handing out leaflets at the school gate. A teacher asked her if she wanted to learn calligraphy. My daughter is very happy. She wrote her name and left my phone number. When she came back, she told me that she wanted to learn to practice calligraphy and had signed up.
From winter vacation to now, I have practiced two words and three lines every day.
Calligraphy is much better now than before.
Persistence is still necessary.
With the importance of Chinese learning, more and more families begin to educate their children to recite ancient poems, read early, read books and practice calligraphy. Children who persist for a long time not only have very good Chinese scores, but also have very strong personal comprehensive ability.
Although my child is now in the third grade, I still remember the first time I taught her ancient poetry. I remember that she was less than two years old at that time, but she spoke very clearly. Once she took the magazine I read from me, sat down to read the cover carefully, and then began to turn the page.
Although I bought her a parent-child book, I began to teach her about simple fruits and things. But the way she picked up the magazine was decent and touched my heart at once.
I quickly got the pinyin version of 300 Tang poems. The first song is Ode to Goose. I pointed to the word and read it. "Goose, goose," the children read together at once. "Quxiang, Xiang Tiange ..."
At first, she only read the words "Goose Goose". Maybe these three words are easy to remember and catchy. The child was very excited at first and kept repeating it. She couldn't connect the next five words for a while, so I stopped teaching her twice. As a result, she read it several times, and she quickly read it several times in succession.
At that time, I was also surprised by her memory. Later, after reading some books, I realized that the brain was blank when the child was young. She taught the child to remember everything, and remembered it quickly and well.
After that, I began to formally teach her to recite ancient poems. I teach one every two days, and then one every day. When I was three years old, I had memorized 300 pinyin versions of Tang poems and dozens of children's songs and ballads.
At the age of four, I began to recite the three-character classics and disciples' rules to my children. Through a lot of reciting, I found that children's language expression ability is also good, and they often like to recite learned ancient poems or sing children's songs to others.
Reciting ancient poems and reading from childhood can not only increase children's knowledge, but also make them confident and optimistic.
Because she insisted on reciting ancient poems, my children also liked reading since childhood. In primary school, she read more and more, which also promoted her learning ability.
Because her understanding ability is getting stronger and stronger, she not only gets good grades in Chinese, but also excels in math and English.
From kindergarten to primary school, and now to junior high school, my daughter has been insisting on reading, and reading has made her more and more confident. Reading also makes her composition better and better, which is often published in the school magazine.
Therefore, I think that insisting on reciting ancient poems and reading will benefit children all their lives and deserve every child's persistence.
From a person's "word", we can see a person's character, which shows how important it is for a person to have a good hand.
Children insist on practicing calligraphy since childhood, which not only makes them have good handwriting, but also makes them confident in themselves. Everyone will admire and respect you at school and at work.
The process of practicing calligraphy is lonely and boring. If the child persists for a long time, it can not only improve his self-cultivation, but also cultivate his persistent good character.
Our child is doing well in China literature now, and the only regret is that she has not been allowed to practice writing since she was a child. I believe it is not too late to learn to practice calligraphy from now on, as long as you keep practicing.
Conclusion: From the above, we can see that children can recite ancient poems, read early, read and practice calligraphy. In any case, as long as they persist for a long time, I believe it will not be bad. Our parents should not only let their children recite ancient poems, read early, read books and practice calligraphy, but also insist on it for a long time to let their children go further and further.
I'm glad to answer your question.
After discovering that children don't like reading but just watch TV, I don't think this will work.
We find that precocious children all have one thing in common, that is, they like reading. As we all know, Bill Gates, who led the global knowledge industry revolution, said the secret of his success-"If I can't be an excellent reader, I can't have real knowledge, and reading broadens my horizons". From this example, we can see the benefits of reading in early childhood.
In fact, children's reading habits are not innate, so we need to be active parents.
The first step is to choose books that children are interested in.
It is very important to make children like reading. We should pay attention to two principles when choosing books, one is according to the age of the child, and the other is according to the interest of the child. Because the life experience of infants and young children is limited, roles, backgrounds and themes should be common in life and easy for children to accept.
Children usually like to watch Huluwa cartoons, so I bought him a series of books entitled "Huluwa Brothers" for her. As soon as she got this set of books, she was so happy that she couldn't put it down and even dragged me to tell her stories. She also likes stickers, so I bought her a more beautiful picture book. Only books that children like can stimulate their interest in reading, and she is willing to read them.
The second step is to be an example for children to read.
Parents generally like reading, and over time, children will come into contact with it, because children themselves like to imitate adults. When parents are free to read this book with relish, the child will naturally read it carefully with her favorite book like you.
So after breakfast every day, I will go to my desk, pick up a book and start reading. Children will wonder what you are doing. When you read a book, she will pick it up and turn it over.
Of course, I think the best time is after dinner, either on the dining table or under the children's bed. Parents can tell stories (or poems) to their children for less than half an hour. After a long time, the child's energy will not concentrate.
The third step is to let the children enter the role.
More often, I read it to her and then discuss the characters in the story with her. For example, after reading the Frolg series of books-finding a good friend, I will ask her, "Why is Frolg happy to see the bear finally back?" Do you have any good friends? "With such communication, she will be more willing to read one story after another.
After reading the story, children should be encouraged to tell it. You can set the scene for her to tell to classmates or dolls. Of course, parents are the best listeners. Parents should pay attention to timely encouragement, praise and guidance, so that the baby feels excited and proud, thus generating the desire to read more books.
What we have to do is to put down our work, spare some time to read with our children and create a good reading atmosphere for them.
Therefore, good reading habits are very important from any angle. Listening to stories is the nature of every child, and telling stories is the unshirkable responsibility of every parent. How easy it is to make children smart! Read more books with her!
Practicing calligraphy, I think the reason is the same. It is necessary to develop good habits for children from an early age, because the current papers are all marked online. Writing well can bring good grades to children, and it is also a business card for people, bringing good luck to children. But we should also set a certain time according to the age characteristics of children, otherwise the children's eyes and wrists will be affected.
In short, reading and practicing calligraphy need to lay a foundation from an early age. As parents, we should accompany our children patiently when they are young, and then we can let them go appropriately until they are on the right track.
Four and a half years old, not old enough to write.
Parent-child reading is a must every day. Parents read more than 200 books every month on average, including picture books, fairy tales, popular science, history and so on.
Now the epidemic situation, there is no kindergarten and trusteeship. Half an hour of logic training at home every day (thinking training, Sudoku, interesting math, etc. )
Ancient poetry began with a book of 300 Tang poems years ago. During my holiday, while I was preparing breakfast, she was learning ancient poems. I can recite about forty songs at present. However, we get up late and usually start reading Tang poems at 10: 30. Wait for the picture book for about two hours.
The rest of the time is mainly toys, playing house, drawing, Lego, guessing numbers, guessing words, playing chess, playing cards, half an hour of TV and indoor sports.
I play with her very attentively, so when I do housework, she is also willing to pack up his toys together, or draw pictures and Lego, which is also a kind of concentration. The family has a simple population, two meals a day (breakfast cake, milk powder, small fruits and eggs, which are quite easy to get) and afternoon tea. There is not much housework, so you can get busy.
All previous picture books were borrowed from the library, and the epidemic library was closed. After many years, buy buy bought 50 books that she liked, which are worth collecting. There are still more than a dozen books on the road. .
By the way, the choice of the nine palaces is relatively simple. For her, it requires great concentration, so during the epidemic, she will only make one at most a week, but the four palaces are too simple, so she recently downloaded some six palaces, two a day, which is quite suitable for her.
In addition, the list of books recently bought is as follows, and you can refer to it if necessary.
An old woman swallowed a fly.
My emotional monster
How can I be so lucky today?
Angry Arthur
Feifei is angry.
My own color
There is an apple first.
I have a railway station in my stomach.
Little black fish
Arvin's little blanket
I don't know who I am.
Good night, gorilla.
Crocodiles are afraid, dentists are afraid.
Krichta
How does the princess dig nose excrement?
Small seed
David is in trouble.
A clever fish
Hungry Caterpillar
Ants and watermelons
goodnight moon
My dad
My mother
The escaped rabbit
Guess how much I love you.
The story of earthworm
David, don't
David goes to school.
David is in trouble.
Hello, lighthouse.
Shenqi seed shop
Mofa candy store
Angry soup
Stone soup
Swagger Jagger
I love kindergarten.
I have friendship for rent
Super stubborn teeth
Grandma Xi who hates night.
Rose hen went for a walk.
Magic flying book
Granny Hua
cottage
I like myself.
A cat that has lived a million times.
Microtus Buddha
Love tree
Badger's gift
Dinah
the napping house
A monster that devours the night
During the epidemic, our second-grade family did read books, practice calligraphy, recite ancient poems and English picture books every morning, and read books for more than an hour at noon every day. I watched all this on the Internet after class. Usually there is not so much time during school, so holidays can't be wasted. Ancient poetry is selected from Reading Everyday in Grade Two. A book has 32 units and each unit has 5 poems. There are ancient poems, modern poems and morning reading rhymes. Recite one unit in two days, almost finished. English picture books are at Gk level in Hyman, and they are recited to F level once every three days. All I ask of him is intensive reading and recitation. Reading at noon is skimming, and he sometimes reads a book repeatedly. Share the books you read during the epidemic.
Hello, I'm Wen Xiaozuo, the mother of a third-grade child. Let me answer this question.
During the epidemic, these things are necessary for teachers to punch in every day. The purpose is to let children study at home and still maintain good study habits. Good habits need to be practiced slowly. But this is the ideal state of many mothers, which may seem insignificant in front of the facts.
My family also has a "god beast", in the third grade of primary school. During this time, I have been studying online at home. I didn't give her any particularly hard tasks, but the tasks assigned by the teacher must be completed. In terms of time, I don't have to force my children to do morning reading, exercise and reading. I have to finish it before 9 pm in a day. I don't set the start time, but arrange it at her own comfortable pace. The small "god beast" has remarkable execution. Let me talk about my idea of doing this:
1. is more important than learning to master and understand epidemic prevention during the epidemic period, and ready-made patriotism education is more worth learning. I will let my children and I watch CCTV's War Epidemic-Special Report every day. Not all webcasting classes can be studied at any time, so the time can be greatly adjusted. This is a special life experience, and what happened scene after scene is a very vivid moral education lesson. I hope that children can learn from the professionalism of medical staff and realize the great feelings of boundless love. Clearly know that only professional knowledge can defeat the virus scientifically and save people's lives. And professional knowledge can only be possessed through continuous learning and hard work.
2. Understanding these contents will better stimulate children's learning motivation. Because I clearly know that only when children truly understand the meaning of learning can they recognize their own learning and accept learning from the heart. It is the best policy to turn passivity into initiative, not blindly paternalism and force learning.
3. It is necessary to increase the resistance during the anti-epidemic period, and it coincides with the spring, and the child is in a period of rapid growth. So I will let my children sleep a little more every day and get up at 7: 30. Therefore, reading in the morning can be read at any time. There is no need to be so rigid. Having a good body since childhood gives you the capital to learn.
4. Let children practice calligraphy and read books every day ... These contents are actually your insistence. If parents can be self-disciplined, children can certainly do the same. Please take care of yourself first, then take care of the children. The best way for children to read more books is for parents to read more books and set a good example for their children. In this way, you have absolute authority in front of the "god beast"!
Having said that, it's actually like reading and writing ... I still let my children do it every day, and the cultivation of good habits needs persistence. But there is no need to be so rigid. I don't want to train my children into robots, do what they do step by step every day, and make such a rigid schedule. The content to be completed remains the same, but the time is controlled by the children themselves, which not only exercises the children's overall arrangement ability, but also makes them feel "masters of the house" and their enthusiasm will be higher! In fact, the same thing, parents in another way, the effect will be twice the result with half the effort!
I am a warm boy and the mother of a third-grade child. On the way of educating children, we can not only spit on each other, but also support each other. Come on! I hope my answer can help and inspire you!