Speaking of the name grapefruit, it is also very casual. My family has an orange cat, called orange. Grapefruit, like oranges, belongs to Rutaceae and is a sweet and sour fruit. I don't know that grapefruit is suitable for pregnant boys and girls. It's simple and clear, and I hope oranges and grapefruit can grow together. Orange with grapefruit, grapefruit with orange. Hope is always beautiful, and reality is cruel. At least for the nine-month-old grapefruit, it has not reached the level of family harmony. Oranges run when they see grapefruit, grapefruit cries when they see oranges, and grabs them when they touch oranges.
As a novice mother, anxiety is inevitable, and with the effect of hormones, no matter how many articles I read, I can't see the baby crying. There is a new moon in the second month, and you can only rely on yourself after the second month. Granny grapefruit does all the housework, while I am only responsible for eating and drinking Lazar. It's good to think about it now, but I didn't understand or like anyone at that time. I said on the internet that this is to protect the baby's psychology. Later, it proved that I really don't have to worry. The baby's father spends less than ten minutes with grapefruit every day, but grapefruit smiles happily at him every time.
About early education, this is also a kind of anxiety. Each stage has skills that need to be unlocked. In fact, the baby will be able to stand up without training. Grapefruit will stand on its own feet for more than eight months, and no one will teach it, but I still can't avoid going into the pit of early education. One is the offline early education class organized by the hospital. The baby starts school once every three months for 40 minutes, with one class 15 dolls. The content is actually very simple, but Rewa was tired of her parents and finally decided not to go after three times. The baby's state is uncertain, and the way back and forth is also very tossing. The cost was not low, so she gave up the class. After class, I didn't give up. I switched to an online early education class. First, I bought a lesson for lilac mother aged 0-3, and played a small game every day, which lasted less than two minutes, which was very suitable for my anxious and lazy mother. Later, I was too confident in myself, thinking that Lilac's mother's class was too simple and unsystematic, so I bought a one-and-a-half-year small step course. As it turns out, I don't have time to play those games with my baby. He is a creature who doesn't listen to instructions. You let her touch her mouth directly, you let her sit down, and she rolls away. It's completely out of control, and it's still too small. Maybe it will be fine in the future. In short, it's enough to teach a lilac mother early.
On the question of full-time or on-the-job, I also want to be a full-time wife before becoming a mother. If only I didn't have to go to work. I didn't realize it until I had a baby. Might as well go to work. It smells good. Taking care of the baby is a very tiring thing, maybe I'm not used to it. I tried to take care of the children by myself for a week. On the first day, I couldn't get up because of low back pain, and I insisted on playing plaster for a week. Six months later, I went back to work, and I was reluctant to give up. I will watch grapefruit under surveillance from time to time, but my life in line with the society is really good, perhaps because my work is easier and more handy. Thanks to grandma grapefruit, taking care of the baby at home allows us to work with peace of mind and have no worries.
Looking back from the birth of grapefruit to the present, from the initial excitement to anxiety, and then to coping freely, this is a process that every mother has to go through, slowly accumulating and becoming stronger. I don't know what it will be like in the future, so be it. Grapefruit is safe and happy.