Happiness, security, belonging and so on are particularly important to each of us. At present, the divorce rate of young men and women is quite high, and the most innocent and painful thing is children. Children from divorced families or single-parent families are generally precocious, and they lack complete affection and happiness. So, how should we cultivate happy children?

How to Cultivate Happy Children

1. Give more love to fathers: Research shows that fatherly love is more important for children's happiness and life satisfaction. Because fathers can listen to their children's needs, often play with them, give them moderate free space and make appropriate rules.

2. Are parents happy? Parents' satisfaction with life has a greater impact on their children than early education, family income, occupation, emotional training, watching comedies, getting together with friends, exercising, and talking to others more.

3. The importance of optimism: Children who learn to be optimistic in childhood will reduce the incidence of depression in adolescence by half, and they can understand what optimism is in the face of difficulties, so parents must consciously convey optimism.

How to guide children's emotions

Parents should correctly understand their children's emotions and pay attention to their emotions. Encounter some happy or unhappy things, there will always be some emotional performance. This is a normal phenomenon. Parents should encourage their children and praise them for doing well when they have happy things. When children can't control their emotions, parents should try their best to divert their attention and lead the topic to the events that children are interested in.