Is it a good idea for children to yell at home during the summer vacation and for old mothers to take care of their babies easily? The child is yelling at home during the summer vacation, and the old mother faces a "dilemma." Summer care saw Dawning Wen/Kexin Parenting Summer vacation has arrived, and children have ushered in a few holiday times. Some parents will accompany their children on long-distance trips or outings, which will bring them a sense of pleasure and satisfaction. Children and teachers are going to have a summer vacation, and parents are busy with work, so there will be conflicts between taking care of children and work. If there are old people or nannies at home, you don't have to worry about this problem. If no one takes care of the baby, parents will be worried. It is impossible to take children to the company. Leaders are not happy when they see it, which has a bad influence on their work.

What should parents do? Is there any way to relax the old mother?

1, trusteeship class

For example, during the epidemic last year, I entered the summer vacation, the epidemic improved, and the children had a holiday. I contacted an early education institution to let the children play with them. This institution is more attentive. Before 8: 30 in the morning, my husband and I will send the children there alone. This is a private organization, the place is not big, one or two square meters. When we meet the teacher for the first time, we will ask the parents, what did the children eat in the morning? The teacher will arrange breakfast for the children according to the situation. The sign at the door says the daily food situation, such as what dishes and porridge.

One day, the children will learn handicrafts, nursery rhymes, dance, read picture books and play games with their teachers, and there will be an hour or two nap time in the middle. Pick up the children around six or seven in the afternoon. If you need to pick it up after nine o'clock, it will take up the teacher's private time. You should say hello to the teacher in advance and buy some fruit for the teacher to express your gratitude.

Freight per day 120 yuan, including meals. I don't know about the service attitude and carefulness, but it is more meticulous than kindergarten.

Some trusteeship services were mainly aimed at migrant children in cities, and later more urban children joined them. They also have needs, such as academic upgrading, hobbies, growth, science and technology, handicrafts, painting and so on. The sources of funds are enterprises and fund-raising. Teachers and volunteers will take time out to teach for free, mainly for children aged 3- 12. This way is not an education project, but a livelihood project.

My husband and I are also a dual-income family. There are no old people at home, so children can only take care of themselves. Although some relatives are willing to take care of their children, I can't bear to separate them from their mother and let them repeat my unfortunate childhood. But because I sacrificed many job opportunities with children, summer trusteeship really let me see the dawn.

Find someone to look after the baby.

There are also parents who have no time to take care of their children, not subjectively unwilling, but under the pressure of reality. Send children to the countryside to be taken care of by their families. This is also a feasible way to reduce stress. Everything gains and losses, parents may be relaxed, but they have to endure the result of parent-child separation. If you are not far from home, it is also a good choice to take time to go back and see the children on weekends.

Seeing a video, my aunt took seven children in the summer vacation and had a long queue for dinner. My aunt is a family with three children. Because there are many children at home, my two nephews and nieces will come to menstruation's house to play every summer vacation. I can't sleep at home and make a floor.

Every meal costs hundreds of dollars, and the original small pot is not enough. My uncle specially bought a big iron pot, and my little niece even shouted through the glass:

Children playing happily together are happier than with their parents and family, and their peers will have more tacit understanding and heartfelt wishes. When communicating with adults, you may not confide in yourself and be a little shy, but only when you are with your peers will you have a happy childhood. I think this is a good thing, the only drawback is that I have suffered from Uncle menstruation.

I remember when I was a child, a group of children in the group played together all day and basically had nothing for their parents. Although I will do some bad things, I really released myself at that time and had a happy childhood, which is a kind of "poor happiness" in the absence of special conditions.

Adults can chat, educate children or news, but the communication between children is simple and direct. If you are interested, you are interested. If you don't catch a cold, don't hide it. Unlike adults, you are far-fetched and protect others' faces. If they are not interested, they can simply play by themselves or leave with their parents.

In fact, playing together can cultivate communication skills, clarify the boundaries between the two sides and improve emotional intelligence. People with high emotional intelligence will choose the right opportunity even if they don't talk or play, and won't make each other feel embarrassed.

Some children are popular because they are good at understanding others, finding similarities and differences from others, understanding "harmony while reserving differences" and "seeking common ground while reserving differences", actively looking for topics of mutual interest, respecting and appreciating others, and gaining respect from others at the same time.

I often encourage children to get along with others, family members and relatives, encourage children to be more guests or invite them to their own homes, learn the ways of "hospitality" and "hospitality", share them in hospitality, and be popular in hospitality.

Step 3 travel with a baby

Because I was too tired from work, a doctor in China advised me to have a good rest. Because I am a public institution, I need a leave note issued by a 3A hospital. At that time, I went to the old Chinese doctor with a leave of absence. He asked me how long I would take a vacation, and I said a month. He was a little surprised. In this case, you only need to rest for four or five days.

In fact, this time is really too tired, and I can't rest for four or five days. Finally, I stamped it. I also want to spend this time with my children, taking them to climb mountains, play with water, glass bridges, glass slides, colorful escalators, high-altitude crossing, water rafting and so on. The children had a good time, but unfortunately, many projects can only be played once. The children are not reconciled and claim to want to play again.

However, it is not without cost to devote yourself to taking care of children, otherwise there will be no income for a month. This is the dilemma of being an ordinary family, accompanying children and having no financial resources; Have financial resources and can't accompany family and children.

It can be seen that it is ok to spend the summer vacation with children properly, but most parents can't do long-term companionship. After all, they have to work hard and face the dilemma. There is no once-and-for-all solution to take care of the baby, but we can choose the appropriate solution according to the family situation, which will not only free up the parents' time, but also make the children live happily and gain something from it.

With the increase of families with many children, parents urgently need to find a better way to take care of their children during holidays. It is also one of the factors to improve the fertility rate and should be paid attention to.