Later, I specifically talked to my father about it. The painting on the wall was really ugly, but the child suddenly had an epiphany. I think this kind of thinking still needs to be grasped. Besides, the wall is nothing compared with the child's imagination. Usually, children don't scribble. He always draws on paper. Accidental behavior does not mean intentional behavior.
Graffiti is a skill that children learn at about one and a half years old. When children grow up to about three or four years old, they will reach a period when many people think they are sensitive to graffiti, and they will begin to express their inner feelings or ideas with various graffiti. I remember that Julie's wedding dress is the work of children's graffiti, and Sun Li also keeps all kinds of children's "hand-made", thinking that children's graffiti is more valuable than anything else, so there are all kinds of children's graffiti works at home, and there is also the song "The Magic of Perception and Growth".
Parents believe that children's "graffiti" is actually the need of children's physical and mental development. Children know the world and express themselves through this kind of graffiti, which is a unique way to show new things. What parents should do is to protect their children's most natural and primitive expressions.
Children's initial "graffiti" is unconscious, without any interference of theory and knowledge, and without the conception and purpose of painting. They just paint wherever they want, which is full of fun and disorder. As children grow older, they will adjust their hand strength and create more works to express their emotions.
Children's language may not be fully developed, but it is also a good choice to express their inner world with graffiti. Parents can see children's inner emotions, children's joys and sorrows, children's small wishes and so on. What do parents need to do when their children are sensitive to graffiti?
1. Make graffiti a child's companion.
Painting can exercise imagination, and children's graffiti expresses the most direct inner feelings. Parents may wish to do small graffiti with their children when they have this ability, which can not only enhance the parent-child relationship between parents, but also make children more interested in graffiti.
Children's graffiti is illogical, but if parents add some other elements to their children, or guide them to slowly add some plots, or even turn this graffiti into a small game, it is a good way to improve their enthusiasm for painting. Of course, the purpose of this graffiti is not to make children fall in love with brushes and increase fun.
Get ready for children to doodle.
Before the arrival of children's graffiti period, there will be some signs, such as suddenly liking pens, such as suddenly liking picture books or patterns with large color blocks, and so on. When these situations occur, parents will prepare some related tools for their children, such as various colored pens, oil pastels and colored lead. Children can try it.
In fact, children's "graffiti" on the wall usually appears at the age of 2-4 and lasts for about half a year. Parents prepare some washable walls or tools for their children in advance, and even some friends put up a lot of white paper at home before, and then take it down and put on a new layer, which can not only protect the children's graffiti desire, but also make the home messy, and the children's hearts are well satisfied.
3. Give children free creative space
Graffiti doesn't have to be on the wall, let alone on the sheets or even on the ground. If parents establish friendly guiding rules at the beginning of children's doodling, children will not go to other places to create their own masterpieces when drawing.
Parents plan a painting place for their children in advance, because there are some gouache, pigments and other materials in the painting, so the place must be a little bigger, or a separate house, or a big corner, or even the whole balcony, so that children can stretch their legs and feet.
It is best to communicate with children in the area set by parents, give them some respect and limit their choices. Children will not be obsessed with graffiti and refuse to choose a place. Of course, parents should not take it lightly. Children need to stare at first when doodling. After all, children's ideas are not what ordinary people can think of.
4. Children doodle more.
Graffiti is not necessarily in the form of a pen, but also in the form of hands or other objects, even the body. If family conditions permit, if parents can give their children such extensive freedom, let them try more ways to stimulate their imagination.
Children are more willing to try these graffiti because of their parents' support and inspiration and guidance. Of course, the situation of deliberate "opposition" will not happen, but will become more organized and harmonious.
Graffiti has many advantages. It is not only a guide for children's active thinking, but also a spiritual satisfaction for children, which is more conducive to the development of children's mental health.
If children are willing to doodle, parents will give them limited choices, so that they can better doodle in this way, which is also a good promotion for their growth.