No parents don't want their children to develop high IQ and EQ.
Parents value their children's emotional intelligence more than IQ.
Man is a gregarious animal.
No matter in the past or now, one needs to live in groups. If you want your children to succeed in social life in the future, you should teach them how to get along with others. Therefore, it is very important to cultivate children's "emotional intelligence".
However, many parents are "confused" about cultivating their children's EQ.
What kind of behavior is called "high emotional intelligence" for children?
Below, Berry Beibei Early Education summed up three characteristics of children's high emotional intelligence.
Tell you, what kind of behavior children have is called high emotional intelligence.
Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory.
In a person's life, there are many things that are not in line with his own mind. When faced with these, many people fail to control their emotions, such as anger, sadness, crying or growling.
But sometimes, time and occasions don't allow us to indulge our emotions at will.
Therefore, it is very important to teach children to "adjust their emotions".
Huang Lei has many daughters, and her performance in the program left a deep impression on me.
Someone asked, "Do you like your father or your mother better?"
Knowing how to express your feelings and having empathy for your parents are all manifestations of high emotional intelligence.
Faced with this kind of problem, many children cried with grievances, unwilling to answer this question, or honestly point out one of their parents. Few children can say so much.
But it is this "talking" ability that makes many answers, which not only makes Huang Lei on the stage and Sun Li off the stage cry, but also wins the respect of He Jiong and others and praises many "sensible" answers.
Being able to speak can not only win the love and respect of elders, but also get along well with peers.
In the hit "We Grow Up" some time ago, Ermao showed her excellent communication skills in collective life.
Unlike her twin sister, Da Mao, who is impulsive, Er Mao is good at getting along with friends in a good way of communication.
At know how to work with Dada and Nuanbao.
When Nuanbao cuts diced radish, the fancy boasts that Nuanbao cuts well.
The phrase "Wow, you are good at cutting" makes Nuanbao full of vitality.
In the end, the two men cooperated tacitly and successfully completed the task.
Knowing how to say the right words on the right occasion is one of the manifestations of children's high emotional intelligence.
Talking children, such as Duoduo, know how to express their views politely with their elders; For example, Ermao is good at getting along with children who meet for the first time.
In the long run, a talking child is likable and will be of great benefit to his later social life.
Some time ago, there was a news that Xiong Haizi peed on the elevator, which caused a short circuit and he was trapped. He went on a hot search.
The boy peed on the elevator when no one was in it, and his prank can be seen from the back of the video.
But it was this urine bubble that caused the elevator door not to open and the elevator button to flash wildly.
As a result, I was trapped in the elevator and was finally rescued safely.
For a time, netizens said "it's time", and Xiong Haizi should be taught such a lesson.
Sometimes, Xiong Haizi's practical jokes have no bottom line or principle.
There are quite a few such Xiong Haizi in life. It is impolite to act rashly; The most important thing is selfish and ill-bred.
However, behind this behavior is selfishness and indifference to others.
In addition to Xiong Haizi who urinates on the elevator button, there is also a very common "Xiong Haizi" in life, such as kicking people's stools in the cinema, cutting in line, making loud noises in public places and so on.
This kind of behavior often leads to resentment and even disgust from people around.
Leaving home and living in groups is definitely unwelcome for them.
Because everyone knows that getting close to such children will harm their own interests.
Everyone keeps a respectful distance from others. How do they become social experts?
Children with high emotional intelligence are different.
Have strong empathy and know how to take care of others' feelings.
Polite and educated, it seems to be a child with high emotional intelligence, an innate ability.
Who doesn't like a child who knows how to talk to you politely and is measured?
Such a child's popularity is naturally not bad.
Therefore, if parents want their children to be popular, they should set an example and cultivate their children's high emotional intelligence.
Well, the above are the three characteristics of high emotional intelligence children summarized by Beibei Baby for parents.
How much does your child account for in these three characteristics?