There is another kind of treasure mother who can live a full life, and that is superior family conditions. She can take care of the baby while studying complementary food and early education for the child. I think this is a university question!
First, it depends on the economic situation. If the economy does not allow it, it is impossible to be exquisite. That depends on how old the baby is. If you are less than two years old, you will be too busy to see the baby every day. So I think it's better to look after the baby before she goes to kindergarten. If you want to live a full life, you should read books, prepare meals, clean up housework and keep your home clean and tidy while your baby is sleeping. The mood is also beautiful, and time passes quickly and fully. If economic conditions permit, you can hire a nanny or a new moon, and don't worry about anything. You dress up beautifully every day, take your baby out shopping, eat in a fancy restaurant when you are tired, have a cup of coffee in a coffee shop, and occasionally get together with your girlfriends.
1992, my baby is now one year and three months old. I brought it myself a year and a month ago. I really don't think I can do anything about children. My family is a girl, and the children have no special sense of security. Ten and a half months ago, they would only play on the mat and would not climb outside it. It is difficult for a nanny to take care of her alone, and most relatives who don't take care of her alone don't quite understand you. I seldom clean up when I bring my own. I always sleep with my child and wake up after leaving her for five minutes, so I hardly brush my teeth and wash my face every day, let alone put on makeup. Normal skin care feels very urgent. Maybe I'm lazy [covering my face]. However, I think it depends on whether the baby can be taken care of by itself. I saw a group of precious mothers when I was taking care of the baby. Some treasure moms take their children to make up, clean the house and cook every day. This is amazing and I admire it. I don't want to cook, even if I order takeout, I can't eat well. The children are whining around, otherwise I will cry sometimes, and I will be hungry if I eat two bites often. Ten months later, I was greedy for milk and kept eating it at night. When I am free during the day, I will also pick up my clothes and coquetry there. I was weaned for one year and one month, and my parents took care of me. My mother often says that my baby is not easy to take care of. If a person really can't eat, the father is responsible for cooking at home, and the mother plays with the children and sleeps. The baby will cry at night and sometimes cry. My mother can't sleep well at night, and my father will watch for a while during the day to catch up on sleep. I was very sad every day for about three days before weaning, and I felt liberated after three days [covering my face]. It seems a bit irresponsible to say so. My parents help me with my children, but I can't be as relaxed as when I don't have children. But everything has advantages and disadvantages. It is still very satisfying to see children grow up healthily and happily [smile] [smile] [smile] [smile] [smile]
It's hard. Some, but some.
First you need a good mother-in-law, and then you need a good husband. Many problems stem from the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
This is my life now.
It depends on whether there is money.
I'm not too delicate. I am unkempt every day. I don't like dressing myself up. I don't wear makeup! But when it comes to enrichment, that's for sure. Is it enough to make money with two mobile phones and a flat brush video [face]! Ha ha. I'm kidding. First of all, enrichment is certain. A two-and-a-half-year-old cub has endless energy to go out to play in the morning, sleep late in the afternoon, go to the square dance with him after dinner in the evening, learn English online every day, punch in the food bought by the platform, and take him downstairs every day. Oh, my god, I have to wash dishes and mop the floor after dinner. God, don't be too full [hit]
Except for the second month, my mother-in-law took care of me for a month. Until now, I have been taking care of my baby by myself when I am over two years old. I feel full. I am busy cooking good food for my baby every day. After dinner, I will climb mountains and wading for a walk. I also met many baby mothers in the community and built a small group of 20 people. Walk the baby together, travel together, fight together and share the food together. I also took many beautiful photos as a souvenir. Every time I go out, I clean up beautifully. I'm almost forty years old.
The point is that you must have a good attitude, treat yourself well, and your body is your own. You can't suppress yourself and make yourself unhappy.
I think it still depends on one's financial ability. Rich people can find a nanny to help them. That's good. Most families take care of their babies and are busy eating and drinking Lazar. How can they have time? If the children are still young, it will be even more difficult. Families in need are too busy making a living to take care of their jobs. I am an example. I have to take good care of my baby and make it beautiful. I'll go out to catch my hair, suck my milk and pull it.
If you believe in yourself, you can do it, provided that you are diligent, your husband helps you more, and your economy is relatively affluent.