1, children are tired of learning, impetuous, hyperactive, selfish, inattentive and obsessed with animation networks. How should parents correctly educate and guide them? ?
2. On the road of children's growth, how to correctly cultivate children's good habits and how to make children learn actively, happily, confidently and effectively; ?
3. How to solve the problem that parents' own knowledge level is limited and they lack the ability of counseling and education, which affects their children's performance improvement and intergenerational education; ?
4. How to mold children's moral cultivation and character, and establish children's correct outlook on life and values; ?
5. Solve six difficult problems-one-child education, children of successful people, children of single-parent families, adolescent education, underachievers education and mental health education.
Raising the poor and raising the rich is not as good as these 10 upbringing.
1, the smaller the promise, the more you should keep it.
"I will lend you that book" and "Let's have dinner next time". All these blurted out words are small agreements. Keeping them will make the other person feel "ah, he remembers" and "that's not a polite word", leaving a good impression of sincerity and trustworthiness.
Don't touch other people's things casually. It's really embarrassing to treat yourself as an outsider and use other people's things casually.
Don't tamper with other people's things and respect their privacy. Before you take something from others, you must get their consent.
3. Do your own thing as well as possible, don't disturb others, and try to hold hands as little as possible. Give others trouble, thank them actively, don't force them.
Waste time and trouble others. Go to Baidu, read books, consult professionals, think and actively find solutions to problems.
4. When you foresee that others will be embarrassed, help solve it in a natural way.
When watching The Voice of China, Ma Dan was very impressed. A player's oratorio sounds very high, so the next sentence can't go up. Jay Chou quickly took it and avoided an embarrassment.
5. Accept it with good intentions, and simply refuse if you have concerns. Don't be vague
For example, when dealing with older people, sometimes the other party will invite them to dinner and always say "no need", which is actually a behavior that makes the other party lose face. It is better to accept goodwill and give each other face.
6. Use beautiful and polite words consciously.
Whether communicating with strangers or family members, wording is very important. I sometimes meet people who speak too respectfully, but I won't be bored by it. Language will become a part of a person's personality.
7. Listen to others carefully. Please get down on your knees when talking to the child.
We should not only put down what we are doing, look at each other and listen to each other, but also know how to respond in time without making any comments. Be curious and respectful, judge objectively and listen deeply.
You know, no matter what others say, it's for you.
8. Don't judge "expensive" or "cheap" according to the price.
Everything is cheap or expensive for a reason. Asking the price in the store and saying "Oh, it's so expensive" or "Oh, it's so cheap" loudly are rude behaviors, which make you look tasteless.
9. If you want to get help from others, please learn to give first.
Even if it's just a simple greeting and smiling face, meet each other's emotional needs first. The essence of interpersonal communication is exchange and reciprocity.
10, everything is ahead of schedule 10 minutes.
Not only in advance, in case of accidents, but also in advance to sort out the mood and enter the state.