2-year-old baby is a critical period of self-construction. At birth, the baby thinks that he and his mother are one. At the age of 2, they began to realize that they and their mother were different individuals, and their self-construction could not be fully formed until the age of 3. Therefore, at this stage of more than 2 years old, they are still obsessed with their mothers, unwilling to share with their children, and completely indifferent to their friends.

So if someone in the family can take care of the baby, there is no need to go to the nursery. Some mothers will say, at the age of two, should he go to a nursery school and learn how to get along with others? Although I still play by myself, I need to get in touch with the outside world. Otherwise, how can they get along with their friends? Yes, it is, but at this stage, they just feel the atmosphere with their peers and observe some behaviors of other children. This demand does not have to be met by attending classes.

If on weekdays, children have the opportunity to get along with their peers, such as taking their children to places where their peers meet, or we take our children to an early education class once a week, that's all right.

Of course, if the old people are taking care of the baby at home, and the old people are too busy to take care of themselves, and always let the children watch TV or get bored, then you can consider taking the class.

2. What is the child's natural temperament and personality?

Going to the nursery means that the child has taken a step towards independence. They need to face the new environment and meet new people by themselves. Therefore, you must have a full sense of security in your heart.

If we have established a particularly good parent-child attachment relationship with our children before the age of two, and the children themselves are particularly receptive to the new environment and new things, then we can send them to the nursery.

However, if the child is a demanding baby, especially sensitive and clingy, and the anxiety of separation is particularly strong, as long as we leave a little, he will be emotional, so parents should not send them to work and increase their pressure. Because the best way and premise for children to be independent is to give them a sense of security.

3. Is there a good kindergarten teacher? What is her experience and comfort?

In fact, the nursing class is similar, and the most important thing is to see how the teacher is. The teacher's experience and comfort to the baby largely determines whether the child feels happy and safe in the nursery. Some teachers are inexperienced and will be very anxious when they see their children crying. If you can't establish good interaction with your baby, then the child will be very anxious, so changing their shifts is equivalent to suffering.