Trick 1: How to make the baby stop crying?
Crying babies are taught to their parents. Newborn babies can't understand words and make judgments by conditioned reflex. China's parents hugged their children as soon as they heard them cry. Dr. Jane Valley has warned me many times that if a child cries, he will put it down, and if he doesn't cry, he will pick it up, just the opposite. In this way, even the youngest child can understand that he can only be hugged when he doesn't cry, which is very smart. Put down the crying child and start training. Look at the clock Don't hug her, make her cry. Get ready to wait 10 minutes. You can set it for 5 minutes for the first time, and it will be longer every time. My Niu Niu didn't last five minutes for the first time, and stopped at about 3: 30. I was so distressed that I almost cried. I have to hold back. Let the children know that crying is not allowed to call mom. Training "children who don't cry" should exclude the other four reasons for crying: urine, illness, hunger and sleepiness. God bless, my two children will not cry for no reason, and crying once in a while is also a rare exercise. Niu Niu and Miaomiao are 65,438+000% happy babies. They are all giggling in bed.
Trick 2: How to let the newborn baby sleep until dawn?
American doctors repeatedly criticized me: you are not a good mother. The child next door sleeps till dawn, and the mother next door is a good mother. You're not! Every time I go to see a family doctor, I am criticized for breastfeeding 1-2 times at night, complaining that it is very tiring and hard to raise children. The doctor told me an idea: humans don't need to eat at night! I asked stupidly, why? The doctor was helpless and said loudly, because we are human beings! Impressed, my father has bent over with laughter. Obviously, I don't need to worry that the baby will be hungry at night. 10- 12 hours of continuous sleep is 100 times more important to children than breastfeeding 100 times! We were tortured badly by the boss Niu Niu, and the bad habit of eating milk at night continued until we were almost 2 years old. In the second year of retirement, according to the doctor's advice, my husband and I were completely relieved. From birth to a week, my Miaomiao received five hours of training before breastfeeding. After two weeks, the child can sleep through the night. No need to feed at night!
Trick 3: How to let the baby sleep quietly, don't shake.
The doctor said that a happy baby will sleep in bed and sing (not true, the baby is babbling)! Babies spend most of their time in bed. Please remember that the bed will not move! Therefore, don't shake the baby when you pick it up, don't walk back and forth, and don't put the child to sleep like this. Just put it on the bed and let him sleep by himself. Again, the bed won't move. Mom and dad, you have no right to deprive your child of the right to enjoy happiness in bed. More importantly, excited parents should not "go crazy" with their children. The child's brain is still in a gelatinous jelly state in infancy, and it is easy to get hurt.
The trick is to sleep on your stomach and raise a beautiful woman.
Personal experience, children sleep more stably on their stomach than on their stomach, and children born with their hearts down will hardly be surprised, imitating the state in which the uterus is wrapped. Another biggest advantage is that it has changed the pie face of Asians. Within five days, the baby needs 1 hour to help turn his face. In five days, my girl will be able to turn around freely. Niu Niu is a standard little face. When she was born, that generous face seemed to become a child, hehe, proud. Second Miaomiao didn't do it on purpose. At that time, Niu Niu needed someone to take care of her, and 1 hour didn't have the energy to turn her head. What a pity. This opportunity is only valid for three months after birth, and it is useless when you are old.
The baby's resistance is ten times stronger than yours.
Mom and dad wear two, and the baby must never wear two and a half, only less than you, not more than you. My two children are very strong, and the hot and cold are actually well controlled. Occasionally, children with fever in children's hospital are wrapped in layers of flower quilts and cotton-padded jackets. Unfortunately, it is the parents' fault that children can't talk.
Trick 6: refuse antibiotics!
Cold and fever are the process of children's growth and the process of enhancing resistance. My baby has a fever. The most common method is to use ice cubes, use zippered fresh-keeping bags, and wrap the ice cubes all over your body with clean towels. The fever will definitely go down in 30 minutes. It burns badly. With Merrill Lynch or Tylenol. If you have a cold and no fever, let the child hang up his nose. It will be fine in a few days. Don't believe that any medicine can cure a cold. So far, my two children have never been hung with salt water and injected with antibiotics, except last year when the hand, foot and mouth were cheated by the hospital. In America, antibiotics are injected only because the disease is about to die. He said that the sight of the injection room in China frightened Niu Niu's father, which made people feel creepy. Rows of garters, children beaten by thugs hang salt water under the escort of their mothers, fathers and grandparents. So much for concentration camps. That sounds horrific. Not to mention spending money, what is even more frightening is that there are more and more poisons left by bacterial warfare in the body, and it is necessary to hang salt water regularly to suppress them. I often hear mothers say that if there are any symptoms, I will hang up the water immediately, which is very proud. I feel sorry for their ignorance. My children are getting stronger and stronger. They never get sick. When you are sick, you will be fine in a few days, and you will basically not be treated. The neighbor's children go to the hospital in the middle of the night, and the tired people are always in a good mood. From this point of view, I am a good mother.
The trick is to take a bath every day for seven days, with clear water and less body wash.
Another reason why my two babies are healthy is to take a bath every day. It is necessary to take a bath every day. Remember to listen to your mother's instructions and lie still when you come out after giving birth. I'm going to stay up until the next day to take a shower. The nurse pulled me up to take a shower in surprise. "No matter what your tradition is, washing away sweat and bacteria is healthy." I was misunderstood as a dirty mother who was dragged to take a shower. Of course, both of them were born naturally. Mothers are like this, not to mention children? Children exercise a lot every day and smell like sweat, milk, urine and urine. They must take a bath, not every other day. This is also an important reason why they are healthy and not sick. They won't catch cold, and their resistance is ten times stronger than that of adults. The doctor explained that the baby should use clean water as much as possible when taking a bath, and brand-name baby products are not as good as clean water. Don't use any shower gel or shampoo, water is the best! The doctor said try not to use it. If you must use it, just use shower gel once a week. My family uses it once every three days (I think a week is too long, which is a psychological effect).
Trick 8: There are no mothers who don't have enough milk, only mothers who don't want to breastfeed.
It is the happiest baby in the world to eat until two and a half years old. Dr. Jane Valley said that there are no mothers who don't have enough milk, only mothers who don't want to breastfeed. How much milk a mother has, the milk of a mother who gave birth to twins is enough for two children to drink. I failed at this point. Although Dr. Gu drew a circle, she told me that you can produce as much as your children eat. You don't think there is enough milk. If you add milk powder, there will really be not enough milk, and finally it will be gone. It turns out that I will be less and less until it disappears. The child can't talk. It's hard to know whether she is full or not. Mother felt that there was less milk, so she gave up breast milk and supplemented milk powder. In fact, she told her body that I could only produce so much. I believe I can be a competent cow. If you have another one, you must prove it. On the third day after giving birth, I went to the hospital for a "nursing class". Several mothers take their babies in a circle, including black mothers, white mothers and Asian mothers. The nursing class uses a very comfortable sofa with a special stool at its feet. The doctors stripped off the baby's clothes, including diapers, and then weighed the baby to two decimal places. Then let's hug the baby and feed it. We can't wear clothes, only diapers. Doctors teach mothers one-on-one how to let their children bite their nipples and how to protect them. During the training, other mothers come to use the breast pump provided free of charge and take it home in plastic bags. My initial shyness and embarrassment gradually disappeared, hehe, I have no idea at home.
What should I do if my baby falls asleep while nursing?
The baby is comfortable and safe to be held by its mother. If you are not full, you will fall asleep. If you wake up, you will eat two more bites and torture your mother. If you are not full, your baby will not sleep well, which will harm others and yourself. The most useful trick learned in the training class is how to wake up the children and let them concentrate on breastfeeding, that is, take off your clothes! When you took off the diaper, the doctor told me, don't worry, you can hold her and use her mother's temperature to ensure that the baby won't catch a cold, and the temperature is just right. The baby is a little cold, and they will eat with heart (she said really, hehe). Don't worry, the resistance of these seemingly fragile little things is 10 times that of adults, and lactating women are not easy to get sick. This is the power of reproduction. (Of course, the indoor temperature is warm, and people in cold areas without air conditioning in China should not imitate misunderstandings. )
Ten breasts are the best "antibiotics"
Niu Niu 10 days or so, one eye became inflamed and suppurated. My father and I were very scared and were sent to the hospital. This is an emergency. Pediatric male doctor asked, are you breast milk or milk powder? I said breast milk. He said squeeze it out and put it in the child's eyes, and the baby will be fine. What? I waited in line for a long time in the emergency department to take me home. So do the same thing, breast milk as medicine. After a few days, Niu Niu really recovered. Whether the cause of breast milk is unclear, American doctors may have a point. In short, breast milk is a good thing.
Can you change diapers?
Nonsense, who can't change diapers when raising children? Not necessarily. Have you ever been sprayed with urine or smelly poop by a child? Washing sheets five times a day is my highest record. When changing diapers, the new aunt has to teach it again every time she comes. The trick is to put the clean diaper under the smelly diaper, and then open the diaper and wipe it clean, so that even if the child urinates again at that time, your sheets will remain. Once you get used to it, nothing will happen again.
Trick 12: Can you burp?
Posture 1: Pat the child on the back and shoulders. This is a traditional posture, and it is not easy to shoot hiccups in many cases. & ltBR & gt& ltBR & gt Posture 2: Let the child sit on his lap, hold the child's neck with his left hand, hold his chin up, and pat him on the back with his right hand. This is extremely efficient, and it is usually finished after ten burps. The last meal of milk before going to bed, be sure to feed it. After burping, we will continue to feed it. My Miaomiao slept like this all night for two weeks. After burping, she can feed it 2-3 times, until she really stops eating and pushes the bottle out with her small mouth, so that Miaomiao can sleep till dawn.
The trick is to eat whole grains for breakfast.
Eat rice noodles for 4 months and then eat them with adults. Children will not be partial eclipse when they grow up. Eating the same food as adults early is good for children. When she had six teeth, Dr. Jiangu said that she could eat a lot of things with these teeth, and she could feed everything. There was nothing she couldn't eat.
Don't ruin the baby's concentration.
When the youngest baby is playing with toys, watching TV or reading picture books, please ask her aunt or anyone in the family not to interrupt them. Even if it's time for dinner, it doesn't matter if it's late. Cultivating children's concentration is equivalent to cultivating children to concentrate on everything when they grow up. My girl has a good concentration. Her favorite things, such as puzzles, don't look up for hours in the afternoon, and no one calls her, except to pee. What I fear most is the elders who yell at their children and tease them. They think they are smart and ask questions while watching TV. Shut up, please be quiet. Give children a focused environment.
Trick 15: Walk slowly and talk quietly.
Practice is very important. What kind of children can adults learn? It's rare to meet a teacher from Shanghai, Lu, and teach the children to walk slowly and speak softly so that people can hear them, not so loudly. Back home, the kindergarten teachers in the community taught the children to sing at the top of their lungs. I watched and thought it was over. The long-trained young lady has been assimilated into China culture. Haha, today's Niu Niu Regan Noodles is full of personality, a whole spice girl. The environment is so fierce that there is almost no possibility of not being assimilated.
Trick 16 As long as there is no danger to life, encourage the baby to try and touch it.
China's parents are too polite and timid. "Don't move, danger, stand up, the ground is very dirty, don't touch, it will sting. . . . Don't do this, don't do that. " American parents often say, "Try it!" Try it and feel it. Encourage babies, as long as there is no danger to their lives, and don't stop them from trying and knowing the world with their little hands. The big deal is that the clothes are dirty, and the baby who rolls on the ground has a short time, and the food and soup are spilled all over the floor. They will learn to eat early and even use chopsticks, which is a big deal. Playing with water is a big deal to catch a cold, and playing with sand is a big deal to wash shoes. In short, there are many rules and regulations that hinder children's happiness, so that our little angel can become an adult and an obedient and sensible child more and more quickly. Happiness comes first, dirty clothes don't matter, as long as there is no danger to life, don't stop my children.
Trick 17 is also the most important trick, and you can only criticize it twice a day!
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