I didn't have any special ideas about it at first. I think everyone is like this. Life is like this. But a friend of mine passed all kinds of exams the year before last and became a publicity office for the introduction of outstanding talents. She changed my views a lot.
Once, she accidentally talked to me about the famous Harvard for two hours, which made me admire. Harvard has a famous theory: the difference between people lies in their spare time, and a person's fate is determined between 8 pm and 10.
After graduation, due to professional reasons, the distribution was particularly bad. She stayed for seven years and crossed her best years. What has she done in these seven years? Supposedly, her state-owned enterprise is neither dead nor alive, but it is easy to muddle along. She is married and has children, and she is very busy. Many people don't think about anything unrealistic at all. How is she? It's different. Everyone is the same at work, step by step. What about after work? She is different from others except that she eats, sleeps and does housework for two hours every day. Everyone reads a book at a time, or doesn't like a book for a year. She read one book after another and began to write various professional papers. Every once in a while, she takes part in several training classes: lecture class, Kunqu opera audition class, bread baking class, and sometimes goes to listen to women's lectures.
I asked her why even baking bread was included in the study plan. She smiled and said, "If the company doesn't work, I can be a full-time wife."
Kunqu opera audition class She smiled: "well, it's just because a university professor I know likes Kunqu opera." When she sang Kunqu opera, I was deeply moved by her expression. Some women live full of vitality, and this god is dedication. It's quite fun to say. When the unit engages in activities, I will knock everyone down with three vocals. " "Ha ha ha." We are in high spirits at the same time.
Seven years, two hours, calculate, what are you doing, what are others doing? Television, entertainment, boring surfing the internet, quarreling, disciplining children ... time flies. Many people say that they have no time to read, study, absorb new things and stay with their families. Tell me, what do you have time to do? () Have time to be bored and complain about unfairness? She said: "If it was unfair, I was in a terrible situation. I spent my whole life in an immortal unit. Many people think that just getting along is good, but I get along badly. I think, even if I mix, I will mix with relish. "
You think she's a leftover woman? Not exactly. In seven years, she also got married and had children, but at the same time she didn't let go of her own business. She said, "Many women like to make excuses. It seems that after having a child, I can't walk. There are all kinds of excuses for you to give up on yourself. But I didn't. I can watch English movies while breastfeeding my children. You can also listen to audio books, sing plays and prepare for the next day's extracurricular speech. Even the early education has been completed. Coincidentally, my son has a strong language ability. Is it related to this? " She had a baby in the fourth year in a state-owned enterprise. She is busy for two hours every night and doesn't feel tired at all. "Are you tired? That's because you always complain about the sky and live in your own world. Don't love, live in your own game. " She said: "It's really cool to hold a child and play Kunqu at home while flipping through professional books. The family and children are very caring, and they have not missed it. "
At the beginning of August, she won the second place in the selection examination conducted by her unit. Her proper language and well-trained posture in the interview made her stand out quickly. Come in naturally like a duck to water, several stages of life, marriage, children, seats. She is still young, only 32 years old. Some women are smart because they are smart. They also use their time in different ways. If you complain about unfairness again, you really shouldn't.