Many parents actually don't understand why their children are so obsessed with this star they have never met. They only say that children are not sensible and want to change their minds, which is true.
First, how to guide children idolize correctly?
The first step for parents is to stand by their children's side, get to know this star with them and observe whether this star is worthy of their children's love.
If this is a bright star that can bring positive energy to children, children should be encouraged to catch up with idols and learn their advantages.
Sa Beining once said that, in fact, idolize is the ideal self, and the reason why children like idolize is to substitute themselves for the status of a celebrity. It would be great if others worshipped themselves.
Therefore, what parents need to do is to help their children find their own bright spots and tell them that they can shine like idols as long as they work hard.
At the same time, children must know what the bottom line of idolize is, especially economic matters.
For example, you can't spend money on celebrities without restraint, you can't cheat your parents for idolize, you can't neglect your studies for idolize, and you can't do things that violate the law and social morality. ...
If you want to see an idol concert, you can earn money by yourself, or you can ask your parents for an opportunity to watch an idol concert by your own efforts.
There is an urgent need to teach children to be rational and idolize, and to have anti-fraud awareness.
Two, idolize may encounter cheating, the following circumstances should be vigilant:
1. "Stars throw money back to fans" asks the victim to transfer the money to the assistant manager, and then return it double or more times.
2. "Buy concert tickets through internal channels" takes advantage of the hard-to-find opportunity of some concerts and meetings of stars to trick fans into buying tickets through internal channels.
3. Pay attention to many famous stars in Weibo, attract attention by publishing hot topics, and then publish prize-winning activities to buy electronic products at low prices to cheat money.