But as a senior mother, I know that the challenge of taking care of children is definitely not to take care of their daily lives, but to discipline them after they have subjective initiative.
? The author creates from the perspective of parents. I think most of the articles reflect the interaction and getting along with parents before the child is 3 years old. The real situation is that most parents, out of fear of the future, began to put forward requirements and plans for their children after their children were 3 years old, and began to let their children carry out various early education and special classes, with little patient communication and companionship. We often leave our children with harsh and boring feelings. Maybe everything we do about love just touches ourselves.
? A sentence in the article deeply touched me: "Your words and deeds will become the words and deeds of children." When children grow up, they do carry our shadow, that is, the brand of family background. Then how can I let my children get positive energy in "Origin and Death"? The ability to be happy is what I should consider and ponder.
Parents' love for their children is not simply to control their children's eating and drinking, but more importantly, to be accompanied and properly disciplined, to accept the differences at each stage of their children and to listen patiently.
? After reading a lot of parenting books, the biggest feeling is that as parents, we must first become a happy person, and let our children see what happiness looks like before they know how to get happiness! When we grow up, the children will grow up with us!