I am cooking in the kitchen, and my four-year-old son is playing in the living room, entertaining himself and having a good time. o(*￣▽￣*)ブ。 Hearing the harsh sound of foam rubbing, he reminded his son, "Baby, don't leave foam all over the floor, it's difficult to clean."

Xiong Haizi promised very well: "OK, Mom."

When I came out of the kitchen, the living room was full of white granular foam. My son proudly said to me, "Look, Mom, it's snowing."

I am Ma Benteng in my heart! Control, control, but still broke out in his careless tone. Yelled loudly: "Mom told you that you can't, you can't, why didn't you listen, how did you clean up like this?" I told you, isn't this for fun? ......."

After some teasing, my son walked up to me indignantly, raised his face and said to me, "Mom, you scared me, you are so awesome." Then open your arms and say, "Mom, hug me."

The anger in my heart was doused by my son's open arms. I crouched down and hugged him tightly. "Baby, did mom lose her temper and scare you? Oh, it's mom's fault. Mom will take care of it later. However, you should also pay attention to your behavior. You will get others into trouble, you know? "

"Well, I know, Mom!" My son still leaned his head on my shoulder and said softly. After comforting my son, I will continue to clean up. I said to him gently, "Baby, go get the broom and clean it." My son let me go and walked away singing and dancing. After hearing his singing, I was so angry that I cried and laughed. .....

The hug requested by the son is the simplest "8-second hug" method. Every child is an angel and should be treated gently. But every child is also a devil, tempering the mother's temperament. Violence in words and actions can make children feel insecure. If they can't establish a sense of security in childhood, "insecurity" may accompany their children all their lives and have a far-reaching impact on their future lives.

Although we lose our temper with our children because our parents don't manage our emotions well, and we are new parents, we should grow up with our children and learn to manage our temper. But once things happen, how to remedy them? The simplest method is the "8-second hug" method. A simple hug will make your child feel your love. Only unconditional love can breed children's sense of security.

Just like my son, after the hug, he came out of his fear and started the action of the little devil again. ........

My four-year-old son's little rebellious period has come again, fighting with me every day in eating and washing.

Son: "mom, I'm so sleepy that I can't open my eyes." I don't want to wash my face and brush my teeth! " "

Mom: "No, you must wash it, or the little train in your stomach will be killed by dental bacteria."

Son: "no, mom, I'm too sleepy." I just rinse my mouth and don't brush my teeth ... "

Every time I wash, all kinds of conditions and conditions come out. There will be some effect after coercion and inducement, but it will return to its original state after a period of time.

Among them, there are two most effective methods: one is to ask heuristic questions, such as: "Baby, it's time for bed. What do you need to do? " ? The second is a picture book guide, The Railway Station in the Belly and the story of dental fungus. It worked well at first. Later, after she understood the routine, she began to lie: "I don't want to do anything, I am willing to let dental bacteria kill the train."

After seeing Qitian's real "five-minute suggestion" method, every day when the baby is sleeping, he rubs his belly or caresses his back and whispers, "Mom's favorite baby, do your own thing; Mother's favorite baby, wash your face and brush your teeth; Mom's favorite baby, eat well. "

Simple three words, slowly the baby himself remembered the bottom of his heart. Sometimes, before I go to bed, the baby will start singing. "Do your own thing" works best and has become a baby's mantra. She often says to her grandmother, "Stop helping me and do my own thing."

? Five-minute suggestion is a method to treat people who fall into dreamy sleep through suggestion. When you go into a dream sleep state, your eyes will keep rolling in your eyelids. If you give hints at this time, these hints will have an effect on your right brain. Precautions:

1) It is recommended that each group of speeches be repeated for at least one week.

2) Seven Tian Zhen early education for five minutes. According to the dark method, it needs to be done immediately after the child falls asleep for five minutes.

3) Mother should gently touch his head, shoulders, back or forehead. Express your love for your child first, and then put forward your expectations.