Let's start with an example:
My aunt is a neighbor of my hometown, in her forties. When the child grew up and she had nothing to do, she took Xiaobao from a nearby factory and both her parents went to work. The mother-in-law said that children are easy to take care of. She ate and drank enough to expand the kang. She doesn't care too much about playing alone, seldom cries, and eats as much as she wants. My mother-in-law said enviously. At that time, her grandson was about the same age as her children, and her husband said that children were not easy to take care of, as if to excuse me. I feel sorry for this child. He has no parents and missed the best educational opportunity.
I feel very tired to take care of my children by myself, but compared with some mothers around me, it is still more relaxed. There are several things that are important to lighten the burden on mom.
1. Have you done the following three things? Do you think women are tired of raising children?
1, sleep
If the child doesn't sleep well and the mother doesn't rest well, she won't have enough energy to take care of the child the next day. When my daughter was 2 months old, day and night were upside down. I couldn't sleep all night and couldn't take care of my children at all. It took me 1 month to adjust my child's sleep. From 3 months, the daughter can sleep till dawn. This is one of my favorite things on the way to raising children.
It's time for children to play independently.
If children concentrate on playing for a short time, they need to rely on their mothers most of the time, so their mothers will be very tired.
3. Children's self-care ability
Children's self-care ability, such as drinking water, eating, wearing shoes and clothes. Children can achieve some aspects of self-independence at every stage. If mothers can cultivate at the right time, they can save a lot of worry.
Second, is the childcare artifact purchased in place?
There are many parenting tools that can help mothers save time. For example:
1, guardrail
When children learn to crawl, they are always worried that they will fall off the bed and get stuck. Buy a guardrail so that I can take time off to do housework.
2, complementary food machine, soymilk machine
Still have to make complementary food for children, buy complementary food machines, and let mothers use tools to improve efficiency.
In addition, for my mother's own breakfast, I bought a soymilk machine that can be reserved. When I get up the next day, my children and I can have a nutritious breakfast.
3, early education machine
Giving children early education requires music and listening to English. If you always go online to find free resources to download, it is really time-consuming. I bought a panda DVD player and a CD for my children to play with. In addition, there are a large number of early education music machines that can play music for children anytime and anywhere.
4. Cleaner
The sweeper can help clean most houses and save me half the time.
Third, can my husband help?
Husband will help to bathe the children, wash the dishes, cook occasionally, hang the clothes and accompany the children to read. Husband and wife have the same division of labor, so I can rest.
When taking care of children, one person is not tired of doing anything, and all of them add up to be very tired. If dad can share a little, it means letting his wife rest. After the wife has a rest, she can actually have more energy to educate her children and give them high-quality companionship, thus forming a virtuous circle and making the whole family more harmonious.
Generally speaking, whether a mother is tired or not depends on her husband's help, what she can buy for her wife and support her scientific parenting. If the husband gives a hand, he won't feel tired. If the husband is sitting and the wife is busy, it is simply tiring and angry to think about it. So many times my mother feels that she is busy and really tired.