Do you always play mobile phone in front of children? Do you know how much this affects children?

Not long ago, it was reported that a mother in Zhengzhou, Henan Province, was walking on the road with her children, but she was too busy watching her mobile phone to ignore her two-and-a-half-year-old son. After being hit by a passing car, the boy squeezed his head and died on the spot. Hearing this news, I believe that parents with children will gasp.

Indeed, now that we have entered the information society, mobile phones have become an indispensable tool for every adult. It brings us a lot of convenience and has become a tool for modern people to receive information and handle things. However, many people suffer from a disease-"mobile phone dependence". What is cell phone dependence? It means that they can't live without their mobile phones and are unwilling to communicate with the outside world. They only want to hold their mobile phones, even if they do. Don't say a word to friends around you, always holding a mobile phone. According to experts' analysis, mobile phone dependence is a mental illness with obvious characteristics of autism. People's long-term dependence on mobile phones often lacks the goals and contents of life.

For many parents, they often play mobile phones casually in front of their children. According to the statistics of TV stations, 17.8% parents often watch their mobile phones in front of their children, and 5 1% parents occasionally watch their mobile phones. I'm sure this figure is still conservative. What effect will playing mobile phone in front of children bring to children?

1, the child has a sense of loss, which belongs to a kind of family cold violence. In many families, parents pick up their mobile phones and let their children play with toys or read books by themselves. This "worry-free" approach is actually a great disrespect for children. In the eyes of children, parents love mobile phones, but ignore themselves. Obviously, mobile phones are more important than themselves, which leads to a strong sense of loss and inferiority.

2. Children imitate their parents and come into contact with electronic products prematurely. We know that there are more and more small glasses in kindergartens, and most of them are loyal fans of touch-screen mobile phones and Ipad.

3. Slow response and single way of thinking. Children who often pay attention to the screen, because they are used to passively accepting information, will be hesitant when dealing with problems, and their handling methods are relatively simple, and they are prone to emotional irritability and poor patience.

It is the parents' extremely empty and anxious attitude towards life that affects their children. Everyone says, is this way harmful to children?

So how can we alleviate this problem? Although the mobile phone is very important, Bian Xiao hopes that mom and dad must pay attention to it in family life and strive to ensure the following:

First, if my wife uses her mobile phone, I must throw it away. In front of children, two people can't use mobile phones at the same time. The purpose of this is to let children know that mobile phones are not the whole of adult life.

Second, when the child asks me to play, he quickly throws his mobile phone aside. In dad's eyes, the baby is the first, and the mobile phone is insignificant. Education is sometimes subtle, and your "performance" gives children more enlightenment.

Third, the mobile phone is not a tool for early education. We can play parent-child games with the simplest pillows, cushions and paper at home, so that children and parents can feel happy and interesting together and increase their knowledge.

Fourth, do morning exercises and running with your children in the morning, read picture books and chat with them before going to bed, and take them around on weekends. You will find that your life is also changing, and the days when you were once controlled by your mobile phone are gone forever.

Two days ago, Wang Feng sang a song: "Everyone is playing with their mobile phones". Everyone is playing with their mobile phones. I'd rather leave here. Adults do not want to live in such an atmosphere. So can't we parents give our children a little warm and pure space?

Maybe all parents understand, which is more important, mobile phone or children?