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Today's question is:
After giving birth to a second child, Dabao became silent. No longer greet acquaintances/guests, no longer take the initiative to help me, and always stay in my own small world silently. What should I do?
What if Dabao becomes more and more silent and passive after Bauer? . mp3
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Lai Xia Zi Jie early education
Q: Hello, Sister Xia! My family Dabao is two and a half years old. Recently, she has become silent. When she met an acquaintance before, she would take the initiative to call someone. When a visitor at home taught her to call someone to say hello, she would do it, but now no one calls strangers. In the past, when I was cooking, washing vegetables and washing clothes, she would take the initiative to say "Mom, I'll help". Now I call her for help, but she ignores me. She just plays with toys, watches TV and asks her why. She just doesn't talk. Why is this? What should I do?
A: For the sudden change of children's behavior, parents should first think about whether anything has happened at home recently. After my inquiry, my mother said that the child's father remembered that Dabao didn't want to call anyone since his mother gave birth to a second child. Now that the second daughter is four months old, Dabao has slowly stopped calling anyone. Every time she doesn't shout, her grandmother will say that everyone loves her sister and doesn't love her, saying that she is a rude child. Also, when the family said that Dabao should be sensible as a sister, she would be wronged to say that her mother hugged her sister but didn't, and she loved her sister but didn't love her.
Now the reason is clear. With Bauer, my family, especially my mother, shifted a lot of energy to my sister, and my feelings for Dabao also jumped off the cliff. Dabao's mood has been depressed, and his parents have never been aware of Dabao's various behavioral changes. They also put forward higher requirements for Dabao, "to be a sensible sister." Dabao is only two and a half years old, which is the period when he needs the deep love of his parents. Therefore, the whole family should quickly reverse their attitude and show more understanding and care for Dabao.
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About early education in Xia Jie: Yang Xia has devoted more than ten years of study, research and practice in the field of early education for 0-3 years old, and established a refined target system and game system for early education for 0-3 years old. Published the classic series "Golden Edition Early Childhood Education" and the best-selling book "Play with your baby until you enter the park". Stay tuned!