In the so-called "four-two-one" family, four people suffer first and two people suffer later, that is, after two only children get married, there are two parents and only one child in the world. Live together.

The older generation, around 60, have all retired, because they all have a child and have no other support. The young couple gave birth to a child, and both elderly people have to bear the burden of taking care of the children and doing housework. Everyone is vying to live in the children's house, and there will be a "four two one" family. If the older generation was not an only child and had two or three children, there would be no "four-two-one" cohabitation.

At present, most of the elderly in four-in-one families are around 60 years old, and I'm afraid all the elderly living in cities have retired. Dancing, fitness or traveling in your spare time are all good choices, for one thing, to keep fit, and for another, to kill boredom and find a sense of existence. Such an old man does not need children to bear the burden of life, because his (her) pension is completely sufficient, not to mention he (she) will take part to subsidize his/her children's families. If you have children, they will be more unhappy without them. Do you think this is the suffering of the elderly or children?

China is a feedback social system. It's really a bit busy and hard to support the elderly with the only child. But ... because you raised me young, I raised you old, and no matter how hard and tired you are, it is also happy and sweet.

However, in today's China, the most distressing and unfortunate thing is those abandoned children who deserve happiness, but they don't. There should be happiness. They don't like it. Once they grow up, it goes without saying that in this immoral society, children with bad karma have to support their biological parents who have abandoned their children. People! It is an emotional animal. Why should abandoned children bear such a heavy responsibility? There is no family responsibility, no moral disaster, and the children are crushed in bad karma. Where is the conscience!

So whether it's a 42 1 family or what kind of family. Who is responsible, who has a strong sense of responsibility, who is caring and who works hard. People who live only for themselves and think only for themselves will never suffer!