There is an old saying, "Mulberry branches should be slightly bent, and sons should be taught early." A child is like a blank sheet of paper, which needs to be taught by parents. In the process of children's growth, mistakes are inevitable. In the face of children's bad behavior, such as stealing money from home, how many fathers can remain rational when these life mistakes affect their children's future?
1. Xiao Bin is six years old and is the only child in his family. His parents like his children very much. Xiao Bin is also very sensible since he was a child. Suddenly, one day, the next-door neighbor ran up to Xiao Bin's father and said, "Xiao Bin, I took a hundred dollars from the drawer while I was away this afternoon." When Xiao Bin's father heard this, his first feeling was impossible. Xiao Bin is usually very clever and wise. How could he take the initiative to "steal"? Ask the neighbor, "Are you mistaken?" Neighbors showed Xiao Bin's father a screenshot of the video.
Xiao Bin's father was so angry that he wanted to give Xiao Bin a good beating, but he was sensible enough to give the money to his neighbor and pay his son back.
In the evening, Xiao Bin's father's anger was much less. Xiao Bin tried to calm himself when he went out to play, but his tone was a bit tough. He asked, "Why did you take the money next door this afternoon?" Xiao Bin was so scared that she burst into tears. He cried and said, "Don't mom and dad always say that they have to pay for things? I took the money to buy something to eat. "
Xiao Bin's father didn't beat and scold the child when he learned that, but first affirmed that it was right for the child to take money to buy things, but it was not good to take other people's money without others' consent. Don't do it again. Hearing this, Xiao Bin nodded and never stole money again.
There should not be many dads who can do what this dad did and ask calmly. If there is no buffer period, I believe Xiao Bin will be beaten up.
When people are angry, they simply beat them up, especially the grumpy father, who often does great harm to his children without knowing the severity, and some even go to the hospital. Parents only know that "small thieves steal needles, big thieves steal gold", but they don't know that children don't understand the concept of money when they are young.
Xiao Ming is not so lucky. At the age of five, he bought a gift for his classmates with a hundred dollars from his father, and when he came back, he was severely beaten by his father.
Xiaoming's father disciplined his children in a rude and simple way without understanding the truth. This makes Xiao Ming understand that it is wrong to take money without parents' consent. He thinks his father's money is his money, and he can use it whatever he wants. His father used to tell him that everything at home would be Xiao Ming's in the future. Why is his father so angry at this time when he took a hundred dollars? Later, Xiao Ming became more and more rebellious, no longer believed his father's words, but also specifically opposed his father.
In children's cognition, there is nothing wrong with buying things with parents' money. I don't know. It's also a bad behavior not to get parents' consent. It's a mistake in dad's eyes. He forced his children to admit it in his own way. The child said something wrong, but he didn't think so in his heart. He may not correct it, but he will hate his father and go to extremes.
Seeing this, many dads will think, how should children be disciplined for stealing? Such a big principle problem, regardless of teaching, children will be more likely to embark on the road of crime, it is better to have a meal.
I think it is very common for children to make mistakes when they grow up. It mainly depends on whether you can think about such things from the perspective of children and then come up with the best solution.
It's wrong to steal money from a child from an adult's standpoint, but he doesn't necessarily know it's wrong from a child's standpoint. What we have to do at this time is not to punish the child, but to see if the child really took it. It would be wrong if the child didn't take it.
If the child really took it, he should first understand why the child did it, and tell the child that it is wrong to take other people's things without the consent of others, including parents, and it is a kind of theft in society. Only by letting children know that they are wrong will children reflect and correct.
Many fathers actually do well and listen to their children patiently, but when they know that stealing money is wrong, they have already begun to regret it. Parents don't have to scold their children more, but should praise them for correcting their mistakes.
At the same time, parents should also tell their children that it is not shameful to make a mistake once, but it is humiliating to always make the same mistake, which will be even more humiliating for parents. I believe that children will not make mistakes again, so this mistake will also be instructive. Moreover, children will have a sense of responsibility and responsibility in their later lives, and they will be appreciated by leaders.
Haste makes waste. I believe that every parent loves their children very much, and children also need their parents' patience and guidance. Therefore, before children form bad habits, parents need to guide them correctly and let them develop in the direction of good habits. Every mistake a child makes is every growing experience. If handled well, children can avoid many detours in the future.
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