What if kindergarten children don't like to talk? Children are the mother's heart, but many children in kindergarten don't like to talk, which is very unfavorable for their future development. Next, I will take you to know what to do if kindergarten children don't like to talk.

What if kindergarten children don't like to talk? 1

1, insecure. There are still a few unclear places. Look at the description. Is this your second child? Did you have a plan when you were born? How is the communication with the boss? Have you always raised it yourself?

2. Normal transition period. All children will not adapt to kindergarten at first, and the adaptation period varies from individual to individual, so she may be slow. She just quietly observes the surroundings or quietly puts herself in a safe area, and only after confirming that the surroundings are safe will she come out of her quiet "protective cover".

3, parents should not strengthen her "abnormal", don't try to guide their children to "normal", as usual, believe that children have the ability to spend this period by themselves, but always accompany her and give her a sense of security.

Why can't children make friends at school?

1. Do parents spoil their children too much when they are at home? Parents also do things for their children, so children have poor self-care ability? Generally, children with poor self-care ability in kindergartens will feel frustrated in kindergartens. When the children in the same class can eat and dress by themselves, only when he needs the help of the teacher, he will easily become inferior, talkative and unwilling to communicate with children.

2. Is it caused by the family atmosphere? Are parents emotionally harmonious? Are family members harmonious? Is the family atmosphere active? If family members talk less, parents will be silent and communicate less with their children. Then children get less attention at home, and it is even more impossible to find friends to play spontaneously in kindergarten. 4/ It is also possible that the child is active and loves to touch his hands. Maybe the children don't like him like this? Because I've met such children before.

If children really don't like to communicate with others, then they may have many psychological problems, and generally the impression we leave them as parents is messy, so at this time, everyone must find out the reasons why children don't like to communicate with others as soon as possible, and then help them correct it.

What if kindergarten children don't like to talk? What if the child doesn't like to talk?

1. Exercise physiological functions to prepare children for language communication.

Parents should always communicate with their children in language and often guide them to do things. When communicating with children or instructing them to do things, parents should articulate, guide their children to watch some drama films, and exercise their auditory attention, auditory memory and auditory understanding. Consciously take children to do somersaults, slides, swings and other games, so that children's whole body muscle tension is gradually strong, which is conducive to the correct development of children's pronunciation organs; Parents can also lead their children to play games such as sticking out their tongues, making faces, playing children's harmonica and learning to whistle, so as to exercise the flexibility of their lips and tongues.

2. Learn written language after mastering spoken language.

Children's language learning can be divided into three aspects: first, spoken language, that is, mother tongue; In the middle is audio-visual language, that is, radio, television, film and television discs, etc. Then the written language. These three learning methods are a gradual process. Mother tongue learning is based on the understanding and expression of spoken language. Therefore, parents should focus on oral English at the beginning of children's language learning, and then teach them to know written language after their oral English reaches a certain level. Don't tell children too abstruse stories. His logical thinking ability hasn't reached that level, which is like casting pearls before swine. Not only can it not develop children's language ability, but it will also make children feel excluded from language learning.

3. Strengthen children's vocabulary reserves.

In the process of learning a language, children will encounter all kinds of problems. Some children can pronounce words but can't use words. Parents said that the alarm clock on the table was brought, but the child was extremely at a loss and didn't know what to do. When his parents said to send the toy dog back, he understood at once. This is because children don't have enough vocabulary, that is, they have to cook, but the materials are insufficient. Therefore, parents should teach their children the names of all things and actions from an early age, so that children can master vocabulary as much as possible. Only in this way can children's language development be guaranteed.

4. Let the children go out and give them a chance.

Parents often take too much care of their children, and even say hello to others outside will do it for them. This starts with the fact that children can't talk. You can often see such a scene. When a mother meets an acquaintance on the road with her child in her arms, she will say, "Say hello to Auntie-Hello Auntie." Children can talk, and this situation has not changed much. In this case, how can children's language ability have room for development? There are also some parents who make fun of their children whenever they say anything, and even regard some of their children's performances as classic jokes, which will put a lot of pressure on their children and make them unwilling to talk again. Only when language communication makes children feel happy can children gradually form good communication motivation and habits.

Children need basic physiological skills, cognitive ability and interpersonal motivation to speak clearly, express fluently and communicate effectively. As a parent, if you work harder on weekdays, you might as well bring an early education machine to help your baby, which will naturally pave the way for children to communicate in language.

What methods can correct children's introversion and reticence? In a harmonious and civilized family environment, children will be emotionally stable, cheerful, emotional and confident. Therefore, parents should first create a warm and safe family atmosphere for their children. Secondly, we should satisfy children's sense of belonging, let them feel love and respect, do not blindly arrange activities according to their own wishes, and reserve the right to choose reasonable demands. In such an environment, children will feel relaxed and happy, speak freely, dare to communicate with their parents, and easily form a lively and cheerful personality.

What are the reasons for children's introversion?

Compared with parents, children may have more to say with their peers, so they can create more opportunities for children to communicate with their peers. For example, if you invite your children to your home and let them be the host for once, they will be happy to say hello to their friends. This will gradually enhance children's self-confidence and make them cheerful. Although the child is young, his self-esteem is not small. Usually, we should communicate with children more, encourage them to talk, and never attack them with corporal punishment or language. This will help to shape their lively character.

Some children are introverted and unwilling to associate with other children. Parents are the most important. Guide children correctly, play with children of the same age and increase outdoor activities. It is also important for parents to give their children a harmonious family and a good growth environment. If the child is seriously introverted, he can seek guidance from a psychologist, so that the child will get better soon.