To borrow a sentence from Degang Guo: "Every parent who wants to succeed in life is not a dragon. The child didn't care about you, and you didn't succeed. Why should I succeed? "
The education in our country is not successful, which leads to all kinds of dissatisfaction and different voices of the people. There are too many people in China who are still thinking in ivory towers in their forties because of their high scores and low abilities.
Personally, children should not be forced to take many classes. It's about the guidance and cultivation of parents. If you don't want to learn, why force your child to learn what you don't want to learn? It is useful to talk about your value.
For example, when I taught a child the piano, his parents said that I had changed, including the fifth teacher, and there was no progress at all. I said there would be no charge for the first six weeks, but I would train his children in my way, and they finally agreed.
Two weeks ago, I took the little boy out for a walk, chatted and invited him to eat snacks. Later, he accepted me as a friend and told me the reason. As soon as I heard it, his parents and those teachers hated me to death.
The reason is that several teachers played with piano scores (in my memory, he seems to have told me that several teachers used worship) and then asked him to practice according to them! He didn't want to practice, so he told his parents that he didn't want to practice, and his parents forced him to practice. It makes me dizzy. If my father had taught me, I wouldn't have learned!
So parents should not blindly think that their children are not working hard. Why don't you put yourself in others' shoes? Let you listen to a boring piece of music and practice it? Will children be as utilitarian as you?
After that, I never taught him again. I went to his place to play the soundtrack and theme song of Hollywood movies in recent years. I play mine, and he doesn't care whether he listens or not. In the sixth week, he couldn't stand it anymore and volunteered to study. If I take Thompson out now, he won't refuse these ugly locks and repeated mechanical training.
So everything is based on sexual interest and cultivating sexual interest. Otherwise, all you are urging is a zombie player without feelings, because he can't understand it at all.