For women who have experienced emotional setbacks, more and more choose not to get married, not because they are disappointed with marriage, but because they are full of more respect. In the journey of life, they gradually drifted away from their marriage and rushed to the end of their lives without hesitation.
The reasons are often as follows.
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Love is a two-way street, not a person's insistence.
Eight difficulties in life: birth, old age, illness, death, love to leave, resentment for a long time, longing and letting go. The first four are involuntary, and the last four are based on personal practice.
There are thousands of forms of love, but the ending of love is very simple, either caring for each other or forgetting each other.
Being together naturally is everyone's expectation and yearning, but passing by and parting ways will always come unexpectedly.
Many people are like moths to a fire, caught in the whirlpool of feelings: there are talented people who meet beautiful women, Lori who loves uncles, harps and songs, and friends who can't get together.
Just because they met so beautifully, they fell in love with each other hopelessly at the moment when they looked at each other, regardless of the great differences in age, status and identity. Love is love, even if it breaks with relatives and friends, even if the whole world will not tolerate it.
When the passion for maintaining love is gone, when the initial oath becomes a joke, when the person who keeps saying that he wants to love himself all his life turns to love others, he finds that love is two-way, and his wishful thinking is futile.
The longest love is that two interesting souls attract each other for a long time. No matter how many years have passed, it is still like meeting for the first time, full of joy and happiness, full of certainty and nature.
The failed emotional experience and subsequent attempts also ended in failure, and many women began to stop looking forward to love, let alone marriage. They will follow fate for the rest of their lives, not expecting love or marriage. Living well every day is a kind of stable happiness.
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Found what you really wanted.
Jane Austen, an English woman writer, is as famous as Shakespeare. Her novels are set in rural life, showing the style of an era. Austen is unmarried for life, but in her literary works, all the heroines have happy endings, which seems to make up for her own regret of love in reality.
The film "Becoming Jane" tells the reason why she didn't get married: Jane Austen, who loves writing, met a talented young man from the city who was on holiday in the country. They were attracted by each other's talents and fell in love. But young talents can only continue their studies with the help of their uncles. If they stay with Austin, they will lose everything.
Faced with the fierce game between life and ideals, Austin wavered: she didn't want her boyfriend to ruin her future as a judge because of love, and she didn't want to give up her hobby of writing because she became a housewife after marriage.
She said goodbye to her boyfriend who ran away with her, and then refused a proposal from a squire's child. She devoted all her enthusiasm and energy to writing and wrote a rich and wonderful life with her family.
A woman who doesn't want to get married is not unwilling to try love, but to understand her heart, which is far more than the pursuit of love.
For women who have experienced emotional setbacks, more and more choose not to get married, not because they are disappointed with marriage, but because they are full of more respect. In the journey of life, they gradually drifted away from their marriage and rushed to the end of their lives without hesitation.
The reasons are often as follows.
0 1
Love is a two-way street, not a person's insistence.
Eight difficulties in life: birth, old age, illness, death, love to leave, resentment for a long time, longing and letting go. The first four are involuntary, and the last four are based on personal practice.
There are thousands of forms of love, but the ending of love is very simple, either caring for each other or forgetting each other.
Being together naturally is everyone's expectation and yearning, but passing by and parting ways will always come unexpectedly.
Many people are like moths to a fire, caught in the whirlpool of feelings: there are talented people who meet beautiful women, Lori who loves uncles, harps and songs, and friends who can't get together.
Just because they met so beautifully, they fell in love with each other hopelessly at the moment when they looked at each other, regardless of the great differences in age, status and identity. Love is love, even if it breaks with relatives and friends, even if the whole world will not tolerate it.
When the passion for maintaining love is gone, when the initial oath becomes a joke, when the person who keeps saying that he wants to love himself all his life turns to love others, he finds that love is two-way, and his wishful thinking is futile.
The longest love is that two interesting souls attract each other for a long time. No matter how many years have passed, it is still like meeting for the first time, full of joy and happiness, full of certainty and nature.
The failed emotional experience and subsequent attempts also ended in failure, and many women began to stop looking forward to love, let alone marriage. They will follow fate for the rest of their lives, not expecting love or marriage. Living well every day is a kind of stable happiness.
02
Found what you really wanted.
Jane Austen, an English woman writer, is as famous as Shakespeare. Her novels are set in rural life, showing the style of an era. Austen is unmarried for life, but in her literary works, all the heroines have happy endings, which seems to make up for her own regret of love in reality.
The film "Becoming Jane" tells the reason why she didn't get married: Jane Austen, who loves writing, met a talented young man from the city who was on holiday in the country. They were attracted by each other's talents and fell in love. But young talents can only continue their studies with the help of their uncles. If they stay with Austin, they will lose everything.
Faced with the fierce game between life and ideals, Austin wavered: she didn't want her boyfriend to ruin her future as a judge because of love, and she didn't want to give up her hobby of writing because she became a housewife after marriage.
She said goodbye to her eloped boyfriend, and later refused a proposal from a squire's child. She devoted all her enthusiasm and energy to writing and wrote a rich and wonderful life with her family.
A woman who doesn't want to enter marriage is not unwilling to try love, but to understand her heart, which is far more than the pursuit of love.