Being a child's mother is not a matter of one or two years, but a child's eternal pillar. Educating children quietly can reveal their subtle changes and life details. As parents, don't be arrogant, or discipline children in a rude and simple way, then children will alienate their parents. Education should be people-oriented, respect individuality, not be eager for success, not be forced to learn by high-handed means, and not be spoiled and allowed to grow. Only by getting along with children calmly and becoming close friends with children can we find their interests, hobbies and advantages, and at the same time, we can find their bad tendencies in time and guide them calmly in time to prevent delaying the opportunity. In the process of children's growth, mothers should observe their growth and changes with women's delicate hearts, be their eternal friends, go deep into their hearts, communicate with their children frequently, and constantly improve their self-cultivation and educate their children in an all-round way.
Some mothers are addicted to mahjong or the internet all day, but they often scold their children for how their academic performance has dropped and how their homework has not been completed. Some mothers are too busy with their own careers to discipline their children, so that children develop many bad habits during their growth. When children become rebellious, puppy love, truant, surfing the Internet, parents begin to feel distressed, complaining about their disobedience, bad school atmosphere, problems with the teaching system, etc., instead of checking their own behavior, children's bad behavior must be a problem of teaching methods, not the children themselves. They can neither be strict nor conniving at their children. Parents should reflect on their own behavior while asking their children to do everything well. As the old saying goes, "The righteous will do what they are told, and the unjust will not follow them." Parents' qualities, including knowledge, morality, cultivation and talent, are like magma under a volcano. The thicker and richer they accumulate, the more explosive their children are.
Education is really an endless art, but I think the influence of mother on children is really important. In the face of children, mothers have a lot of things to do, but they must lead their children to grow up together, educate their children by meditation, read regularly, regard reading as the normal state of life and a good habit, and cultivate children to love reading and love reading, not just for a quiet life. It can also lead a person to wisdom, enhance connotation and precipitate the soul. Mother is always awake and wise in reading and washes her mind in meditation. At the same time, it also beautifies children's hearts and tells them that knowledge is always more important than gold, and reading is the main way to acquire knowledge. A mother who has her own spiritual pursuit will never let her mind wither and her intelligence weaken, and always keep a calm and peaceful mind. Only in this way can the mother become the spiritual mentor of the child, and cultivating meditation can not only change herself, but also change the child. Implementing meditation education for children in life can correct their behavior and cultivate their mind. Through meditation experience, storytelling, careful meditation and other educational methods,
Pine trees are not afraid of cold and heat, nor of storms. After several decades, they have afforested the barren hills and stood proudly. Pine cones are always solid, and seeds are scattered everywhere. Re-planting mountains, pines and pinecones seems to be planting trees and people in education and passing them on from generation to generation. The spring and autumn of nature gave birth to humanistic education and philosophical human feelings. Only a calm person can see through the world.