I was angry outside, and when I got home, I saw that the child had done something wrong, so I got angry. Such anger is not necessarily caused by children. It's not appropriate to take it out on children.

Many parents say that they are tired after a busy day, and their children still don't know how to look at their eyes, just looking for scolding. Isn't this the child's fault? In fact, this statement is not true. Parents who have this idea can recall: When they are in a good mood, will their children be angry when they come to this step? Therefore, many parents will unconsciously take their children as punching bags. I also think it is easy for children to forget things. Even if they remember, they will understand their difficulties in the future. But the opposite is true. Parents' bad temper does great harm to their children.

Parents are impatient and irritable, and their children's character will become timid and inferior. No matter in the workplace or in life, people's life will be affected by negative emotions.

In recent years, the latest brain emotion research found that:

Some abused children, that is, children who have been beaten and scolded by their parents for a long time, are rescued from the abused environment, placed in a good family, given a good environment, and then sent to school, but generally there will be a phenomenon of slow learning.

They are not only poor in concentration, but also poor in learning ability.

Some time ago, many parents helped their children with their homework late at night. As a result, the children still couldn't, and the parents beat and scolded. It can be seen from the above research that it is necessary for parents to control their temper if they want their children to get good grades.

I understand the reason, but it's hard to do. Some parents say they know it's bad to be angry at having children. But I can't control myself, nor can I control my explosive emotions. When the child did something that annoyed the parents, the fire immediately came up, and the more impulsive parents immediately yelled and slapped. After that, I regretted it and apologized to the children. Parents finally got stuck? Beat and scold? And then what? Apologizing can't go out of the strange circle. There is such a result, mainly because of finding reasons. Next, Berry Beibei Early Education has prepared three emotional control tips for parents. Let's have a look!

Before talking about the method, it is worth mentioning that parents don't have to feel guilty because of their bad temper. Anger has happened, and they should accept it first. Acceptance can better alleviate it. The following is Berry Beibei's early education, which has prepared three emotional control tips for parents. Use it quickly!

1 Take a deep breath When something happens, parents can take a deep breath until their mood is a little slow and they can think normally and objectively.

(2) leave temporarily. If your child does something, it really makes you look good. Parents are advised to leave the scene for 2 minutes, out of sight and out of sight.

And prevent parents? Didn't say anything? , is to play a meal, who cares. Let's talk about it after the fight.

3 Wash a cold face If you really want to copy a stick and spank your child, you can go to the bathroom to wash a cold face and wake up.

Meditate in your heart? Biological. Biological. Biology? ! ? Health is very important. Health is very important. Is health important? !

Doing these three actions well can help parents to temporarily ease their emotions when educating their children, so as not to say things that hurt or hurt their children because of anger. Only when the mood is calm can parents seriously think about whether they are angry because of what their children have done, or whether their children have just hit the gun. After thinking about the reasons, think about how to guide the children and let them understand. What can you do? 、? What can't you do? . Only by truly guiding children can parents do it hard and easy? Just suppressing anger? Come up again and scare the children. Parents who attach importance to children's education know that only by fundamentally solving things can children not make the same mistakes next time and let them grow up by making mistakes. Parents are not angry. But most parents don't know how to guide, do they? How to say that children will listen? .

Therefore, if you want to educate your children well, it is not enough to just relieve your emotions. Parents should have a certain relationship with their children. A tour guide? And then what? Communication? Skills.

It happened that parents can work without research, right? A tour guide? Ways and communication skills are not available to parents.