The personality of parents in family of origin is the core factor in the formation of children's personality. If parents are cheerful and lively, then children will not be particularly introverted and timid. Every bit of life is a good example of parents' influence.
When a child's beloved toy is accidentally broken, cheerful parents will say, "Oh, it doesn't matter. We tried to repair it, but we couldn't. When you buy a new one on Children's Day, you can have multiple new toys! " At this time, what parents expressed was that if it is broken, it can be repaired, and if it can't be repaired, it will be bought as a new toy.
Imagine that the joy of a new toy replaces the sadness of a broken toy. Let children solve problems in front of reality, and at the same time adjust their emotions and turn "bad things into good things." Although there is the spirit of writing Ah Q, it is also a positive attitude towards life, because being immersed in grief and sadness is not helpful to solve things.
As the child grows up, the contact range of social life expands, and his personality gradually tends to be social and is deeply influenced by the environment. In reality, most people's personalities are mixed, and children with cheerful personalities are sometimes introverted, while older children will also show a calm side when dealing with things. In the process of children's character formation, the influence of parents is very important, so if you want children to be optimistic and cheerful, then you should use your behavior and way to exert influence.
But in any case, we still have to respect the inherited personality characteristics, so we should not force adjustments, but influence each other on the basis of acceptance. Even if the child is an introverted person you don't like, you should actively discover and feel the advantages of this character, because every character in Jehol has its own advantages and disadvantages, and there is no absolute difference between good and bad.