Someone once said: As a mother, it is not only to raise children, but more importantly, to raise children as their own career. When children are not born, they should have knowledge of early childhood education after birth, and when they are four or five years old, they should know the knowledge of related problems that will appear in adolescence. Only in this way can he keep up with the crisis and guide and guide the children in an orderly way. To this end, we should also make preparations before the children go to school, so as not to be in a hurry when they get cold feet. A few days ago, I spoke to a former colleague on the phone. She reminded me on the phone: Anyway, now that you are at home full-time and let your children study more, we feel a lot of pressure now. I asked her which course was stressful, and she said that her children now feel that both Chinese and English are under great pressure. Because she took official document mathematics in kindergarten, she has some foundation, and this course is ok. And advised me to let Diandian go to kindergarten for official document mathematics. My colleague's child is in poor health. Every time I meet her before I go to primary school, she talks about the children's eating and drinking, Lazar, and seldom talks about the children's education. Maybe the child's foundation is not very good. Sister Swallow used to play with Diandian before she went to primary school, but she never came out to play after she went to primary school. One night, when we were playing in the garden, we met the three of them and asked the swallow about her situation after school. Her mother said she was under a lot of pressure. Swallows do their homework slowly and don't know many words. After finishing her homework, she has no time to come down and play. Another colleague, the child is in the fifth grade. Every day after school, mother and daughter play badminton and jump rope in the garden, usually for more than half an hour. Ask her mother: Is there much homework? How do you have time to come out to play? Colleague said: there is not much homework. Let's exercise for a while first, and then I go home to cook. She does her homework and reads books after dinner. They feel very relaxed. This colleague's daughter goes to a key primary school, and the children above go to a primary school near the garden, which is not particularly good, but they are all first-class schools in Guangdong Province, and the schools are not bad. Little by little, I will go to primary school next year, and my mother is particularly concerned about these children who go to primary school. When I meet their families, I will know what they have after school and what basic knowledge they need before going to school. Not only that, my mother also joined several primary school mothers to learn from them and ask them some questions after school. There is a mother's reaction: some do not accompany their children to do their homework after entering school, so that the children can handle it themselves. The children are very conscious and behave well. Some want their mother to accompany them, and when they leave, they are distracted, and their mother feels very tired. Some said they would stay with him for a while at first, but later they wouldn't, so let him do it himself. Some can do it well, some can't. Some mothers say that children don't listen carefully in class, and teachers always let parents go to school. Some say that children have great problems with writing and ask where there is a writing training class. Others say that children are not interested in English and ask how to make children interested in English. Some say that children's mental arithmetic is too slow, so they should strengthen their mental arithmetic ability. Different families have different problems. After learning about some children's problems after school, I asked them to lay some foundations before going to school. Many mothers say that they should read more words and story books. Mathematics in primary school is very simple, so you don't need to learn too much. Some mothers should give their children more English to cultivate their sense of language. Some mothers say they don't need to learn too much. After studying too much, children will not concentrate on listening in class when they see that they know everything, forming a bad habit of not listening carefully. A mother said that her children had never learned Pinyin, and the teacher passed quickly after school. Both children and mothers felt particularly stressed. Some parents are also told by teachers to strengthen their families, and some children can. Your poor foundation makes your parents feel ashamed. After two or three months, I learned about some children in three districts of the city after school and before school. Combined with the fact that we couldn't get into a prestigious school, my mom and dad finally reached an agreement: go to the supporting primary school in our community, lay a good foundation for Diandian before going to school, help Diandian with her homework after school, and give Diandian a relaxed and happy learning atmosphere. 1. Solve the problem of independent reading before primary school. When listening to the sharing reading lecture in kindergarten, the teacher said that the literacy of independent reading must reach 2000 words. Let's lower the requirements, 1000 words, and basically understand ordinary story books. There should be no problem in understanding textbooks and questions in primary school for one year. "Children's Pictorial" said that 284 commonly used words make the baby worry-free in school. These dots are almost enough. No one knows how many words Diandian knows now. I don't think it will exceed 400. Because few people taught her to read alone, she learned it in the process of reading, and some of them were not taught, but only after reading more. But compared with 1000, it is still a lot worse. It seems that the task is still very arduous. 2. Read more books. Expand your vocabulary and prepare for future writing. What books are you reading? The first category is story picture books, which are more interested in children's appetite and children are more interested in reading. This kind of books is relatively simple, and some books can be read independently. The second category is classical Chinese: I have finished reading the Analects of Confucius, and now I am reading the Tao Te Ching and the San Zi Jing, and there are some poems suitable for children's tastes. I used to listen to my mother's reading, and she would recite it slowly. Now my mother will write some read articles or poems on the whiteboard at home for me to read. By reading these books, she knows more words and phrases, and the third category is history books. After watching this year's National Day military parade, Diandian was very interested in the people of Chiang Kai-shek's era in Mao Zedong. Dianpa also took the opportunity to tell stories of her time and guide her interest in history. Later, I went to Shenzhen History Museum. Now Diandian is curious about history and always asks many reasons. Point dad took out the "Five Thousand Years of China" at home and prepared to inject it into point's brain. The fourth category is popular science books. There are many popular science books and handmade books at home (in the words of friends: your home is a small library. ), a little bit can be browsed at will, and doing experiments and crafts is a little bit of the most interesting thing. My mother used to take a little bit to do it, but now my mother is lazy. Some people say it well: a lazy mother will cultivate a daughter who is quick to attend work. Now, I find my own books, find my own information and do it myself. I really can't help my mother. 3. We still need to lay some foundations in mathematics. Let's leave the multiplication and division to the school. First, let's do addition and subtraction and mental arithmetic. Colleagues said how long it would take to finish the 100 question, saying that mental arithmetic is very important. Think about it, too. This is a usual cumulative process, and it is impossible to attack suddenly. Playing shop-opening games at home and practicing mental arithmetic are much more interesting than engaging in sea tactics in official document mathematics. 4. English reading and listening practice. I have been exposed to English for two or three years, and the effect is not very good. On and off, I have forgotten some words and sentences I have seen before. I'm a little bit better. I'm not disgusted with English, but I'm interested, but my learning method is wrong. Now my mother takes out Disney Magic English and learns to play with Diandian. In addition, she learns the newly bought National Geographic Children's Encyclopedia at the rate of one book a week, which does not need spelling, but needs reading and recognition to cultivate children's sense of language. Next week, the textbooks for the first grade of Longman English Primary School in Hong Kong will be published. Some schools want to learn this. Maybe we don't learn this in our school. Let's learn it ourselves. Language learning is a cumulative process. Let's lay a good foundation in advance. As for some mothers, if children can learn before school, they will not concentrate on listening and paying attention in class, which will form a bad habit. To this end, I asked a primary school English teacher, Diandian's mother, about this problem. She said, no, the teacher asks questions in class. If you know others, the teacher will definitely praise you. When you praise your child's interest, you will come to class more attentively. Mom, it makes sense to think about it. If you think children can learn a lot from books after school, you can set higher demands on them. For example, children can be asked to actively answer teachers' questions in class. We can ask your children not only to read, but also to write. You should ask children to finish their homework in a shorter time than ordinary children's homework, and pay attention to quality and efficiency. Be strict because you will learn more than others. In this way, children will not feel that they have nothing to do, so that children will not feel that they have no goals and will not go with the flow. That's all I can think of for the time being Mothers must have their own good methods and experiences. I hope we can like them, study together and help children walk better on their way to school!