It turned out that the child got up a little late in the morning, and the mother was afraid that the child would be late for school, so she picked up the remaining half bowl of porridge and fed it to the child. Because I was in a hurry, I accidentally spilled a few drops on my child's clothes, but the child opened his mouth and said, if you do this again, I will look at you! ?
In fact, children aged 3-6 enter? Shit. Shit? Sensitive period, some people say? The foul language period? ,? Shit. Shit? Children's favorite topic. All children are so obsessed, regardless of nationality or gender,
When parents hear this from their children. Swearing? Sometimes, parents react with surprise and anger, and then severely criticize their children. But this is actually a temporary solution, and the child will no longer scold you on the surface, but if you are not in front of the child, the child will continue to talk. So what is the cause of the child? The exit is dirty? What about yours?
1. Swearing is really cool!
Children are little experts in life observation. Some children see that adults have a strong reaction to children's swearing, so they try to imitate others' swearing and feel the power of language.
Sometimes, the stronger the reaction of adults, the more children can feel the power of swearing, and the more they like to experience their own fun with such swearing.
2. All the other children are talking!
In the kindergarten stage, children may not realize what they mean by swearing at all, just for fun. So once there is such a sound in the external environment, children will think that everyone says so, and I say so, which is not only fun, but also can make more friends? Language? Where's my good friend?
Did the child do it? The foul language period? What should parents do?
1, cold treatment method.
When a child swears, parents should not beat and scold the child, and should not react strongly to reason with the child. You can try to pretend not to hear, and children will naturally stop talking without experiencing the fun.
2. Cognitive behavioral therapy.
For example, taking children shopping, parents can say to their children: That man doesn't even know how to speak, but he is cursing. I don't want to be with that kind of person. ? The child will realize that your standards are not only for him, but also for everyone.
3. Environmental isolation law.
The environment that children are exposed to is relatively simple. Parents can think about it: Why do children curse? If it is caused by environmental impact, you can try to keep children away from bad environment and play with children who swear as little as possible. Slowly, children will forget to swear.
In addition, if the child is a little older and still has bad behavior of swearing, parents can give the child some punishment appropriately, so that the child can realize his wrong behavior and make introspection and correction.
Finally, I will tell you a little joke, hoping to inspire every parent: in a family, dad occasionally swears, and mom will educate the children to say: Dad is wrong! ? . Today, the baby watched an early education disc. Where is the English in the teacher's hand? Cattle? Niu, read kao, and the baby actually said that the teacher was wrong! Ha ha!