Informal early education stifles children's talent, and the heritability of intelligence cannot be changed. Children's growth determines their future. Faced with this problem, parents can adjust their mentality and strive to let their children go up a storey still higher. Let me share the methods of informal early education to kill children's talent.
Informal early education stifles children's talent 1 As parents, it is human nature to expect their children to succeed, but is it really beneficial for children's physical and mental health to pin their hopes on early education training classes and let young babies receive targeted education too early?
Colleagues around me are highly educated, and their emotional intelligence and IQ are excellent. Speaking of it, no one has received any early education and training, and they all grew up in the pure ecology of nature. Infantile period is the key period for the fastest development of children's nervous system and the development of various potentials. What is most needed in this period is the care of parents and the subtle education in feeding and playing. This natural edification is irreplaceable by any early education institution.
Some inferior early education training centers begin to train children to walk, read and learn English when they are three or four months old. This is distorting the nature of infants and young children. In fact, it is the reality of making money in the name of pseudoscience. Young parents who are eager for their children don't have to stretch their necks to get a bloody neck for the profiteering industry.
Mothers are the best teachers for infants. As long as mothers fully open their intelligence to study and research, raise their babies with maternal love, and children grow up happily in a free environment and have a healthy mind, they can become the pillars of society!
Informal early education stifles children's talent 2 1, and children's specialties are discovered by parents.
Not every child can see at a glance that he has extraordinary talent or talent. These talents and abilities are gradually revealed and discovered during the cultivation. Therefore, parents are both parents and mentors of children. If you can have a pair of eyes, your child may become a genius. Of course, if you never focus on children, it is possible that a gifted child will pass you by, but you are at a loss. Parents are the first to discover that their children have some kind of talent. Parents should pay more attention to your children.
2. Hobbies contribute to the development of genius.
For children, what they like and are deeply curious about will determine their future development and research in this field. Just like Einstein sat in a chicken coop when he was a child, trying to hatch chickens. Children's strong curiosity and hobbies are the' thrust' of their genius road, and their parents are just the' scouts' behind them. Parents can encourage their children to discover and observe what they are interested in and like, help them develop good hobbies, or raise their hobbies to a higher level to provide them with a good environment and learning opportunities.
3. Spend more time and care.
Many times, parents' guidance and care are the biggest motivation for children. If parents haven't been with their children for a long time, or if their children have any hobbies, parents either don't know or don't support them, which is tantamount to killing their children's talents. The child was watching the ants move with great interest when his mother came over and washed the ants with a bucket of water. The child cried and said nothing, but he also felt disgusted. He thought it disgusting for his mother to do so. Parents should understand their children's curiosity, not only can't stop it, but also encourage their children to observe interesting things in life, spend more time with their children and care more about them, which is helpful for the cultivation of their talents.
4. Encourage and support children as much as possible.
Believe that love will work miracles. Many parents do not love their children enough. They think that as long as children eat well and sleep well, it is the best love and responsibility for children, but they don't know that appreciation education is very important to help children. Don't underestimate the explosive power and potential of children. They are just buried, and parents need to spend more time to dig and recognize them, and all this can not be separated from their parents' love and encouragement.