Small classes in kindergartens are not just for taking care of children. The most important thing is to let children learn how to get along with others, integrate into the group, learn some simple knowledge, develop their intelligence and pave the way for the future.
First, learn how to get along with others.
Every child is the treasure of the family, and the family revolves around the child. But out of society, not everyone revolves around children. If you can learn to get along with others earlier, you will suffer less. Going to kindergarten is a good opportunity to learn these knowledge of getting along. In kindergarten, children will learn to share, learn to be modest, learn to help each other and increase their sense of responsibility. Professional preschool education will teach children to say hello, goodbye and so on. To tell the truth, if the elderly take care of the children, they can only manage their daily lives. Without kindergarten, it is difficult for children to learn how to communicate with friends of the same age better.
Second, integrate into the collective.
Nowadays, many people say that they have social phobia, dare not go to crowded places, and don't like to live in groups. Although modern society has been very tolerant, for some occupations, such a character is still inappropriate. When children are young, newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, which can be said to be the most likely time to become social experts. In kindergarten, children can naturally find their place in the group, which is human instinct. If the elderly take care of children, it is difficult to have the opportunity to integrate into the collective, which is extremely unfavorable to the subsequent growth of children. Other children go to kindergarten and learn the order of kindergarten. If your child enters halfway, there will be a little vague sense of exclusion, and it takes effort to smoothly integrate into the group. So it's best to go to kindergarten if possible.
Third, develop intelligence.
The human brain determines the upper limit of human intelligence, but according to Darwin's theory of evolution, if the brain is not used, high intelligence will not be developed. Children are still a blank sheet of paper and need to develop their intelligence. Kindergarten will teach children some simple pinyin, some simple arithmetic knowledge, and take them to play some puzzle games. These are all ways to develop their intelligence. Advanced kindergartens will also teach children English and cultivate their sense of language. My colleague's child went to an aristocratic kindergarten, and the child can already introduce himself in English. The study of these knowledge and the development of intelligence can be done if the elderly can coach their children. If not, children may not be able to keep up with the progress after entering school. So, if you can, send your children to kindergarten as soon as possible.
When choosing a kindergarten, parents should pay attention to whether the qualifications of the kindergarten are formal, whether the meals provided by the school are clean and hygienic, and whether the teachers are professional. If children don't want to go to kindergarten, parents should first try their best to lure them to school. As long as the school has good friends, children will like to go to kindergarten. This can also reduce the pressure on the elderly at home. It is still difficult to look after children when the old man is old.