Last weekend, I took my two children out to play. Many mothers in the company admired the courage of our two in-laws, because they either left their children at home or only brought up the eldest, like this? Standard for children's edition? Hardly.

According to the internet, a person going out is called a tour, and taking the baby out is called a practice. I can only say, for the children? Happy time? , sacrificed himself? Happy time? This is not asking for it. What is it called? True love? Ah!

Some people say that the baby is too young to understand anything. I forgot it after two years. There is no need to take it out. In fact, it's like showing a baby a black and white card, talking to him and reading him a picture book when the baby is born. It is a process of constantly stimulating his brain development and increasing his knowledge, but one is in the book and the other is on the road. However, many mothers would rather spend tens of thousands of dollars a year to do early education for them than spend thousands of dollars to take them out for a trip.

There are several reasons for this:

1, the child is too young. I can't remember anything, wasting money and energy, waiting for them to be older;

I'm worried that my child will get sick. Fear of acclimatization during the journey, fear of improper care, and poor rest make children sick;

3, afraid of fatigue, too much trouble. Taking children out is like moving home once, and adults have to take care of them. Playing with them is too tiring, and they are not happy.

It is said that Chinese mothers can give everything for their children. Now it is found that this is a very one-sided statement. Many mothers are only willing to spend money, but they are unwilling to spend energy and time. Sending your baby to a training class, whether you have learned anything or not, has one advantage. Save trouble? When the child is inside. Study hard? At home, the old mother can rest comfortably on the sofa, blowing air conditioning and brushing her mobile phone. Is it much easier than playing and reading with her?

Growing up with children is like returning to the first happy time in your life. This is something we should be grateful for. Don't always complain about how tired it is to take care of the children. Change your mind and you will see different scenery!

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I once saw a summary about tourism on the Internet:

Older single women (men) are basically traveling overseas;

Married and childless people basically travel in Britain, America and Europe;

Get married and have children, and travel by the sea;

Married people with more than two children basically watch others travel in their circle of friends.

This should speak a lot of mother's heart. After having children, I feel that the whole person will be hollowed out. How can I travel?

Some time ago, I saw a message from a friend in a circle of friends:? From now on, I will never take my baby out again! It's not a trip, it's killing me. ! And then with a lot of crying faces. I said as for? My daughter is in a large class and can take care of herself in basic daily life. I said, look at you, you are so big, you don't look like a flower in a greenhouse. Why are you so fragile and so melodramatic?

Two days later, I saw the travel photos taken by the second-born mother in the circle of friends:? It lasted 18 days and traveled nearly 10,000 kilometers, passing through Fujian, Jiangxi, Shandong, Beijing, Inner Mongolia, Hebei, Jiangsu, Anhui and Jiangxi. Tired is tired, but it is worthwhile to see the happy smile of the old man and the figure of the child on the grassland! ? There are two babies, and the youngest is only over one year old. Mother looks soft and weak. I didn't expect that she had great potential in her body.

Why are children raised by optimistic and open-minded mothers generally more active? This is the difference. Does the concept of a family have an absolute influence on children? The rudest and most direct? Yes

The breadth of a person's life determines his Excellence, and the journey from childhood is the starting point to expand the breadth of life. Travel is also the best and most intuitive way. It not only broadens children's horizons, but also enriches their discovery and cognition of new things.

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A famous photographer said: The scenery I saw when I was a child will remain in my mind. It may not be what anyone said, but the scenery we saw, which gave us encouragement and courage until the adults turned to the fork in the road in life. ?

It can be seen that it is of great significance to travel with children.

1. Children's chance to explore the world

When children are young, although they may not remember where they have been, it does not affect them in the least to learn to see the world from different angles through what they have seen and heard during their travels.

As soon as the boss went out, there were countless problems. On the way, he will show great interest in new things and study them repeatedly. He will cheer for interesting scenes, marvel at dazzling scenes and express his curiosity about the wonders of nature. Every moment is the most precious experience in growing up. How can you say: the child is still young and knows nothing?

2. Cultivate children's adaptability

Travel is actually a good opportunity to exercise children's adaptability. Go to different places, experience different lives, from unfamiliar environment to strangers, let children participate more, appreciate different cultural landscapes and strengthen their adaptability.

On the other hand, the diet will also be disrupted. If the child can adjust and adapt quickly, he can also integrate into a new life quickly, which is quite helpful for his later life.