I believe that many families will begin to put having three children on the agenda one after another, but it is a headache for many couples to talk about who will take care of the three children, regardless of external factors such as economy and housing prices. Although many families only have one child, adults feel very tired, not to mention having two more.
Most couples who can have triplets are middle-aged, and many old people in the family can't help the baby, so the burden of raising the baby falls on the husband and wife. Especially as a treasure mother, having children and raising children is the main force. What would the life of a three-child treasure mother be like without the help of the elderly?
On the Internet, a nanny named Chen Chen shared her family life of triplets. This precious mother takes care of three children by herself. Her husband is busy with his career, and the old people on both sides are in poor health. She never comes to help. From this precious mother's daily life and circle of friends, we can see that the life of triplets is not as "chicken flying dog jumping" as expected, but also full of helplessness.
Ma Bao Chen Chen and her husband are college classmates. After graduation, they all stay in big cities to work hard. After two years of marriage, they successfully welcomed their first child, and then resigned to take care of the baby. Three years later, I found an unexpected pregnancy, so I gave birth to a second child. The first two children are boys, and Chen Chen and her husband feel particularly stressed.
During the Spring Festival, Chen Chen took his two sons back to visit the old man. Chen Chen's mother always said: "My daughter is the happiest, and my daughter is the most intimate little cotton-padded jacket." Originally, Chen Chen didn't intend to have three children, but after listening to her mother's words, her thoughts began to waver. My husband actually likes his daughter very much, but he is afraid of having another son.
Just when Chen Chen was 33 years old, she found herself pregnant unexpectedly again. Chen Chen and her husband discussed whether to have children. Considering that Dabao has already gone to primary school and Bauer has already gone to kindergarten, it will not be particularly tiring to have another child at home, so he gave birth to the third child anxiously. As a result, his wish came true, this time it was a daughter.
In this way, Ma Bao officially started the life of triplets in the morning, getting up at 6: 30 every morning to prepare breakfast, and then her husband was responsible for sending Dabao and Bauer to school. Taking care of my little daughter at home during the day and morning, although it is very hard to take care of the baby alone, it is convenient to buy online, such as daily food, vegetables and fruits. Can be solved through the internet. Occasionally, when I don't want to cook or feel tired, I order takeout, wash clothes, have a washing machine, sweep the floor, and sweep the floor. The housework is not as tired as I thought.
After school in the evening, my husband is responsible for picking up Dabao and Bauer, and whoever is free will cook dinner when he gets home. The hygiene at home is also shared by husband and wife. If you really don't want to do sanitation, call an hourly worker to clean it. About Dabao and Bauer's homework, her husband is responsible for tutoring Dabao, and in the morning, she is responsible for reading to Bauer. The youngest daughter is also doing early education next to her.
In fact, housework and tutoring children's homework are not the biggest headaches for Chen Chen. The most stressful moments for her are Sundays and holidays. Even if the home is clean and tidy, as long as three dolls enter the door, it will instantly open the "burst" mode. Toys, snacks, clothes and socks can be seen everywhere, the sofa will soon be full of all kinds of messy things, and the floor will always be endless garbage.
When sleeping at night, Dabao insisted on pulling Chen Chen to tell stories. Bauer jumped up and down, but refused to lie down. The younger daughter insisted on being hugged by her mother, which would also make Chen Chen feel broken. I finally put all three children to sleep, feeling that my time has just begun. Although it is already early in the morning, I often fall asleep at two or three in the morning because I don't have to take care of the children and do housework at this time.
In the face of a triple life without the help of the elderly, treasure mothers should adjust their mentality and not let themselves be too anxious because of trivial housework and the hard work of taking care of their babies. We should learn to simplify the unimportant things as much as possible, and at the same time pay more attention to the education and cultivation of children.
Don't expect too much from trivial housework, as long as it can be basically completed. Such as washing clothes, washing dishes, sweeping the floor, etc. Now it can be done by machines. Many smart home appliances on the market can liberate the hands of treasure moms to a great extent. Don't pursue too high quality in food, as long as the nutrition is reasonable, even if the color, smell and taste are not complete.
In educating children, the key point is to let the three children cultivate brotherhood, let the children love and help each other, and don't blindly favor or spoil one child. In this way, children will be more United and can take care of each other when they grow up.
In order to live a happier life, triplet families need more wisdom from both husband and wife in addition to adequate economic conditions, so as to balance the relationship between husband and wife and their children. Even if no one comes to help, they can still keep their lives in order.