To be honest, I don't know how to express my feelings, which really makes my emotional intelligence a little low. Because when you can't express yourself, you may miss something, which may cause misunderstanding and make people feel puzzled about you. There may be more misunderstandings when getting along with people. But this is not absolute. Maybe others like your ignorance and stupidity. Perhaps this kind of person's character is indecisive and unconfident. You are afraid to say what you want to say and do what you want to do, and you are entangled in your heart and even feel a little inferior. It is difficult and clumsy to share your feelings with others. This is not conducive to the future development of my circle of friends. I won't express how much I love my favorite, learn how to praise others, and don't know how not to be disappointed when others are happy. Compare Muna. Only those who really understand you won't mind you. After all, there are only a few who really understand you. In this society, we should be as smooth as possible. Be a man, learn to read words and observe colors, learn to understand and communicate, and learn to take care of other people's emotions. When others need your exact statement, you should try your best to express what you want to say. Maybe what others need is your inner emotional care. It's not that people in Mu Na can't accomplish anything. People in Mu Na tend to work harder and harder. It's just that people in Mu Na are not in an advantage among social groups, so they need to make a detour. Continuous shooting's flattery is also a skill in this society, which is different from what you learned in class. As the saying goes, it is never too old to learn. Because we have to adapt to the society, we have to constantly improve ourselves. In order to gain a foothold in society and integrate into this society. EQ is often higher than IQ, and EQ is more important than IQ.

For your information, no. Have you ever heard of the idiom "Silence is golden"? Your silence won't make people think that your emotional intelligence is low. On the contrary, it will make people think that you are a person with a story, a thoughtful person who loves to think rather than show off. This feeling of "being forced to wear dark clothes" is very cool. Men generally don't express their feelings well, and not everyone will show their feelings in a good way. However, as long as you feel it with your heart, someone will feel it. When you leave, you won't say emotional words, just silently watching your friends go away. They know you and know that you can't express your affection, but they know in their hearts that you are reluctant to part, and they won't think about your low emotional intelligence in their hearts, but they will think that you have mixed feelings and are speechless. When communicating with groups at school, you know that you are right and others are wrong, but you can't be angry to convince others that you are right. Do they think you are emotional intelligence? No, they will think you are mature. Recently, I was watching an animation called "Welcome to the Strength First Class". The protagonist is a character similar to "facial paralysis", but it is very attractive, that is, many people like it. You are not good at expressing, but you can only prove that you are hiding your merits and fame, and you are not in cahoots with the secular world. These are all good aspects. So don't worry ~ just be yourself and don't care what others think. Besides, what is EQ? Being good at expressing feelings means having emotional intelligence? Not exactly. Many people who are good at expressing emotions have really low emotional intelligence. Ok ~ look on the bright side, just like an invisible man, let people see through at a glance? Is this called high emotional intelligence? So don't worry, your silence will only show that your emotional intelligence is high, not the other way around ~ But if you want to express your feelings like others, you can make more friends to make yourself sociable. With more friends, you will naturally be more cheerful and express your feelings ~

I don't think so. I dare to express my feelings because of my personality. I don't know much about EQ. Although they usually say that I have low EQ, I think EQ should be the way you handle some things or your cognition of feelings in the emotional world. If you can't express your feelings, you can choose to prove it with actions. Sometimes the movements are actually the most touching, just like for parents, you can give them a massage after work or pour them a cup of tea. This is to express your feelings. For friends, it is also an expression of their feelings to accompany them silently with an umbrella delivered in time when it rains, or to have a meal with them when they are hungry. For love, is it a warm shoulder that he is not generous when he is sad, or a small surprise inadvertently? I like it very much. Sometimes sweet words may make people feel unreliable, but actions will not. They will only make you feel secure and secure, so don't worry too much. As long as you have feelings, you can express them. But you should also learn to say something in words, because although actions can express a lot, after all, there are limitations, and words can bring warmth to each other wherever they are. Learn to tell each other when it is cold, remember to add clothes, and be careful to catch a cold when it is cold. The other person is ill, let him remember to take medicine, drink some hot water and go to bed. These are actually very simple, but it's just because you haven't said it that it's so difficult to express. No matter what you say or do, if you want to express your feelings, you can. If you don't do it, no one will know.

No, it's not a low emotional intelligence. It's all because of my poor expression skills. I may be introverted and lack of language skills, which leads to certain obstacles in chasing people I like. It may take a long time to organize what you want to say, but you can't think of anything to say in a short time People with low emotional intelligence shrink back, don't chase girls, don't know what to say to the person they like, or can't see the meaning of each other's words clearly. This is indeed a very serious problem. If you want to express yourself to the person you like, you must prepare the materials in advance and don't let yourself improvise. You could have said something touching, but you made a fool of yourself in front of others because of your poor language skills. I have spent this time. I am a person who says everything in the buckle, but I am a person who can't say anything to girls in life. I am nervous when I see girls, especially when I am chasing my girlfriend. I don't think I am a person without emotional intelligence. I just don't have a thick skin. If I were thicker, I could easily win her heart. I think everyone has emotional intelligence, but they just don't know how to use it. I've seen many people who obviously can't have a girlfriend looking for a girlfriend, probably because they are thick-skinned, haha. You can try to improve your expression ability, especially on the spot. Don't instill in yourself the idea of low emotional intelligence. People with high emotional intelligence will also become low emotional intelligence because of this idea. Get in touch with people more, so that you won't be embarrassed in front of the people you like. Anything is possible, and you will find your own love.

People who can't express their feelings sometimes seem a little low in business, especially what others say. If you don't really express your thoughts or say nothing, it will make the other person feel embarrassed, and then feel that your emotional intelligence is very low. But it is not absolute, because some emotions are actually real, and some people may appear depressed when expressing their true feelings. In fact, my husband is a person with low emotional intelligence. I still remember that in August, my husband's colleagues went out to play, and the weather was particularly good. Then his colleague sent some photos in the circle of friends, saying that he went to the cloud and water ballads, so how good, and then my husband commented below that it would be better to go to the cloud and water ballads on rainy days. Seeing such an evaluation, I really feel speechless. But for the husband, this is his true expression. I still remember one time, I was chatting with a friend of mine, and I said that you had lost weight recently. How did you do that? Then my husband said, have you lost weight? Why didn't I see it? Everyone was embarrassed in an instant. Therefore, many times, I don't express my true feelings, and I don't necessarily have a low emotional intelligence. Mainly depends on whether what you said is appropriate. If you use this sentence to express your feelings, you will also feel that your emotional intelligence is very low. I still remember when my husband and I went to Yanji to play. My husband also took photos of several scenic spots in Yanji in the circle of friends. Then his colleagues commented below that Yanji is interesting, isn't it a Maoershan? In fact, expressing true feelings in this way will appear low emotional intelligence. So everything has two sides, and EQ can be learned. Come on!