1. As experts say, you can't change Xiong Haizi, but you can change yourself. Promote yourself to become a famous teacher and an expert. Later, as they said, Xiong Haizi will be impressed by your profound knowledge and noble personality charm. You can't be helpless, you have to do something, or they will play a spell again: "There are no students who can't teach well, only teachers who can't teach well!" " "Then give two examples of Xiong Haizi who was transformed by Shiai n years ago, so that you can't tell how bitter it is to eat Rhizoma Coptidis.
2. Xiong Haizi, who can't handle it himself, can rely on external forces, and there is no need to carry it alone. If you are a classroom teacher, you can give it to the class teacher. If you are a class teacher, you can invite students, monitor and other subject teachers who have a good relationship with Xiong Haizi to help communicate. Or ask parents, but there are often parents behind Xiong Haizi. Some parents of bears, it is easier to pray for God than to send him, but it makes the teacher feel worse. Or report to the school's political and educational office that the school will come forward to solve the problem; However, there is no good way for the student affairs office to tell the same truth in two lines, and make two threats that are not painful and send Xiong Haizi back to class. After that, Xiong Haizi, like a general who won the battle, returned home in triumph, paying no attention to his teacher.
Turn a blind eye, turn a deaf ear and finish your work. An iron school and floating students, Xiong Haizi is leaving school again. When there is really nothing to think about, I will endure hard work with them until they graduate. Although it is a kind of physical and mental suffering, it is better than hitting a rice bowl with a finger! Have you found that some students have dinner in class, and the teacher talks to himself and insists on giving lectures without looking at anything else? Xiong Haizi is his own fault. Tell me about yours. Don't follow his rhythm. Don't be angry with him. Of course, ordinary people really can't do this unless they realize it after a big loss, or they can do it without bleeding.
Here is the ruler. Don't use it easily. No one can say clearly, and no one can master it well. Before you call, hello, I'm good. After you hit, only you are bad. Look before you leap! I can't stand it any longer. I left my first-line post or walked out of school.
If you have any good ideas, please share them.
If you don't listen, you are helpless, and if you let yourself go, it will be a disaster.
"Xiong Haizi" had cognitive problems in the early education stage. If they can't learn from the past, it will be difficult for them to change in ordinary schools. They have nothing to hide, they don't attend classes, they beat and scold their classmates after class, and they are not afraid of teachers.
Traditional educational methods don't work for them. To put it bluntly, it's like trying to turn a dog into a sheep. Unless the gene mutates, it's all in vain.
I had an English teacher when I was studying. He came into the classroom and asked the students first. If anyone doesn't want to have an English class, please raise your hand. Seven or eight boys raised their hands.
The teacher said, please go out and don't affect others' study. I won't give you attendance, and I won't complain about your class teacher. This is a negative way to solve the problem.
Some "Xiong Haizi" simply don't understand the importance of learning, and the root cause is that they don't like learning. This requires us educators to learn to "guide the situation" and "watch the seedlings", what seedlings bear, what seeds to plant and what flowers to bloom.
It is so difficult to research our technical titles. People who study day and night are tireless in finding a needle in a haystack. Business leaders don't let us study, and study delays our work. However, people who have studied are not secretive. They have several times more money than others.
Why "Xiong Haizi" didn't want to study, didn't have the motivation, didn't know what to study for, and built a "Xiong Haizi" school, which linked eating with classroom discipline and academic performance. If it is good, it will give food, if it is not good, it will starve. Once there is a crisis of survival, people will burst into amazing power.
Being a teacher is not easy. Don't be a fucking baiwenhang. You don't care about your salary. You don't have a teacher to teach you to have a fucking conscience today!
There are 50 students in a class, and five Xiong Haizi are not too many. This class violates discipline. Do you want to let go of the other 45 students to criticize, educate and persuade these five students for one hour or continue to give lectures to most other children? Or pretend you can't see or hear? I took my students for ten years to practice at the hydropower station in the Yellow River. The price of disobedient students may be that they have no bones. Do you want me to break his leg before coming to the hospital or let his parents cry with the body? Those who can't hit students casually have never been managed at all, and they simply don't understand that safety is to be prevented! Is to take the rights and lives of dozens of people as an excuse for their inferiority and lack of discipline! I have never been on a production line or a high-risk position, and I have no idea how fragile life is! And the usual safety awareness can only be subtly rooted in the bottom of my heart in the usual law-abiding Teachers who beat students are not necessarily good teachers. Teachers who don't beat students and beat students wrong are definitely not good teachers!
In fact, not everyone can do it well, let alone pass on textbooks. China people regard Confucius as a saint and a grandmaster, not only because of his series of works, but also because of his practical actions. There are 3,000 disciples of Confucius, and it is necessary to understand after teaching. When you meet an impatient student, you will tell him to think twice before you act; Students who are indecisive and timid will be encouraged to act decisively when they encounter something. He preached filial piety. A student is often beaten by his violent father. He told the students that whenever his father was angry and wanted to hit him, they ran away. The student asked on the spot, didn't you let us be filial? This is unfilial. Confucius replied, which parents in the world don't love their children, and which parents are not angry and out of control. If they are injured and disabled in anger, they will regret afterwards, which is really unfilial. We ran away from our angry father and sincerely apologized when he calmed down. Is there such a teacher now?
I really hit students when I was young. I said in my question and answer about Luanchuan incident that I regret hitting a student.
I have taught rural students as well as urban students. According to the theory of "evil nature", there are many "fighting" students in rural primary and secondary schools. In rural schools before 2000, teachers who had never beaten students were probably harder to find than Confucius.
Nowadays, there are very few people who beat students. This is a change in society, and the legal system and understanding have changed; Second, social change, teachers beating students, the legal cost is too high; Third, students and parents are stronger.
In recent years, my idea is that to do students' ideological work, we should be patient and meticulous, and we should "give priority to persuasion and education, supplemented by discipline."
But there are still students who don't eat hard, don't eat soft, and don't avoid the cold. I have been away from rural schools for almost 20 years, but I know that the atmosphere of education and teaching environment is probably worse. After 80, they began to be parents, but the cultural level and quality of these parents are not very high.
Sometimes I tell my colleagues at home that if you want to work hard, you should be worthy of the title of "teacher" instead of salary and thousands of years of teaching experience. However, we should also be good at protecting ourselves.
In fact, one of the main reasons for the lack of students now is that primary and secondary schools have cancelled unified examinations and unified rankings. Since the implementation of quality education, primary and secondary schools have unified teachers four times a year and ranked teachers. Teachers' bonuses, evaluation first, promotion, evaluation of professional titles and assessment results are all major items, which are the driving force for teachers to "give full play to students and achieve good results".
Now it's not ranked like that again and again, and the promotion and evaluation of professional titles can't just look at the results. Teachers' performance pay mainly depends on the workload, so teachers can only beat students who violate the discipline, but these students are not easy to provoke, and parents are even more difficult to provoke. In short, few students beat them.
I have been in a private school for more than ten years. A few years ago, at the beginning of school, some girls had to go out to get things from their parents. According to the requirements of the school, the head teacher must take the students, so I will take another girl because she is a girl. After I came back, I told this girl that according to the school discipline, the mobile phone must be kept by me until I go home. The student refused and later scolded me. When it was ugly, I said, "If you curse again, I may hit you." As a result, the girl I went with went back and said I hit someone.
I also told some teachers in the village to let the students who can't manage go. Is it necessary to let the children of families who don't respect teachers and respect morality learn knowledge?
I tell my students that learning is a student's business. Now it's best to listen to the teacher and study hard. I really don't study, the teacher doesn't force me, but I'm not responsible for the students' lives.
Of course, if possible, we should try to teach students well and do more ideological work. After all, students are not yet adults, and their minds may not be mature. I should be more patient because I teach students who repeat their studies in senior three.
Therefore, I want to say that corporal punishment is not acceptable. Talk well and stop.
Education cannot solve all problems. Say a few words: some students and teachers are not good at teaching, and some people are not suitable for education at school.
It's just that I have to talk about students.
Good students can't beat teachers, and teachers may have no choice but to beat students.
As long as Xiong Haizi doesn't affect other children! Let it develop! Such children, in fact, their parents know better than others! Let them take care of themselves! But if they want to influence others, they can only report to the student affairs office! There are cameras anyway! Let the parents get it themselves! Whatever the punishment ...!
In the teaching process of more than 20 years, there are indeed some children who don't eat oil and salt, but after many years, we find that these children who don't eat oil and salt are no different from others.
In other words, the children we tried to persuade at that time could not keep up with your own study, and were not necessarily excellent people. Those who tried to persuade and beat and scold could not change them, but they still lived happily in this society.
Some time ago, I met a clerk in the supermarket and took the initiative to greet me. Actually, I don't remember it at all. Then it suddenly occurred to me that this is a female student I taught in primary school. At that time, her grades were the first in her class from grade one to grade six. But who would have thought that he would eventually become an ordinary shop assistant? Therefore, the key to education lies in a long-term persistence.
I don't talk about the problem of career level here, I just want to express a concept, that is, there is too much psychological gap with myself. At that time, I thought such a child was definitely a kind of undergraduate school, such as 2 1 1, 985.
At work, we once held county-level parties. During the rehearsal, a tall and handsome boy came. Handsome guys call the teacher as soon as they meet. I don't remember him at all until he finally introduced himself. This is the child I taught in primary school who didn't do his homework all day, was sloppy and had a bad family environment, and barely finished his homework from grade one to grade six.
But such a child finally became a program host. The key is that he suddenly figured it out in junior high school and began to study hard. This is the key.
Therefore, as a teacher, it is enough to do a good job and do everything with your heart. Corporal punishment and beating and scolding are both undesirable. The growth of many children is indeed a slow process, and the growth of many children is indeed a sudden process.