In daily life, we often meet children who are flushed or even in tears for a toy. When parents meet them, some loudly reprimand them, some intervene, and some parents are aggrieved for their children. In the final analysis, there is only one reason. In the eyes of parents, quarreling is never recognized and affects friendly relations. But in fact, the disputes between children are natural phenomena, not all bad things, which are often conducive to the development of children's communication skills and the healthy growth of their hearts, and have irreplaceable significance in adult teaching.

First of all, I think the dispute between children is a good opportunity for children to experience tolerance and humility. Children nowadays are all only children. At home, he plays with toys alone, and adults will let him play with them, and no one will fight for them. In kindergarten, children who grew up in the same environment will inevitably stumble together. Different opinions and opinions among peers can help children know how to get along with their peers and learn to be humble to each other.

Secondly, disputes between children are an important course to learn to deal with interpersonal relationships. Theoretically speaking, the dispute between children is the contradiction in their initial interpersonal communication. In dealing with disputes, they gradually learn to observe and think, have the opportunity to learn to communicate with others, and gradually master interpersonal skills. As parents, children should be given the opportunity to deal with disputes, and they should be affirmed and encouraged when they deal with them at that time. But we should not let it go, we should guide it in time. When children are not handled properly, they should seize the opportunity to help them distinguish right from wrong. Over time, children learn how to get along with others and how to coordinate their relationship with others. Mastering this skill will benefit children for life.

In addition, disputes between children are also conducive to cultivating children's ability to solve problems. When there is a dispute between children, in most cases, we should hold a calm observation attitude and give children a chance to solve the problem independently; Parents don't have to come forward immediately when dealing with difficulties. They can give some suggestions for children to choose from, so that children can understand that their own problems still need to be solved by themselves. This not only enhances children's self-care ability, but also cultivates children's self-confidence.

A child who develops in the direction of independence and self-improvement cannot agree with others in everything. The difference is normal and reasonable. I think that as parents, we should not make a fuss about the disputes between children, but should treat them calmly and guide them correctly, which will help the healthy development of children.