1. Apologize for your previous behavior with your children. For example, "My mother always interfered with you, made decisions for you and didn't discuss your affairs with you. Sorry, my mother will try to change in the future. I hope you can say something. " Parents need to inform in advance before they want to change their relationship with their children, rather than directly and silently.

2. Don't guess what children think. If parents are used to guessing, children will also be used to waiting for their parents to guess. Therefore, through the guidance of parents, if children do not communicate, they can bear the consequences of not communicating.

3, more respect for children, let children choose their own supplies. Some things about mother can also let children make decisions.