First of all, you should live naturally and simply, without affectation, naturally transparent, sincere and true, cry when you should, laugh when you should, just be yourself, sincere and natural, open-minded, modest and prudent. Some people may feel unnatural in a different environment and don't know how to deal with it. This is extremely wrong. They should keep their sense of reality, don't care about other people's eyes, just be themselves.
Then you must have knowledge. A vivid person must have been to many places. Even though he hasn't been to many places, he has naturally read many books. Experience is very important, so is knowledge. You don't want to be familiar with engineering literature, but you can also learn astronomy and geography, but you must be able to understand basic common sense and understand some literature rationally. It is also a realm to read poetry and books. Or proficient in a certain field. Reading can not only make people understand knowledge, but also make people more transparent and open-minded.
Secondly, we should be curious, keep pace with the times, and keep learning ability and motivation. Never too old to learn. We should keep a curiosity to explore everything, or learn what we don't know and we need to master with an open mind. This society is a highly competitive one. Only by continuous progress can we keep pace with the times. A friend once said: The only constant in the world is that the world is constantly changing. In order to catch up with the changes of the times and not be eliminated, we have to keep learning, and even learn to create, innovate and form our own style.
Third, you should maintain self-confidence and your own principles, and form your own aura. Confident people can keep their own style. Although you will encounter too many setbacks, you must be self-reliant, confident, and firmly believe in your own strength and belief, and you can overcome everything and win your own victory. But confidence is not conceit. Besides our own self-confidence, we should also have self-confidence, which requires our own experience and knowledge to support our own unique atmosphere. Do things with principles and have their own outlook on life and values.
Fourth, positive, cheerful and optimistic, calm as water. People don't like people who are sad every day, so you should be positive. No matter what you encounter, you should be optimistic, tolerant and calm, not happy for things or sad for yourself.
Finally, learn to be humorous. Many people like humorous people. You should be modest and elegant, but don't be sarcastic. Humorous people can actually bring a lot of laughter to others, and life needs such pistachios. Humor is the embodiment of wisdom and self-restraint. Everyone needs some spiritual pleasure to sweeten a boring and difficult life. Therefore, we should have an optimistic attitude and be able to treat people and things humorously and vividly. Humor will make you more popular and you will have more friends.