I was really excited when I became a mother for the first time. I just found out I'm pregnant and I'm looking for baby products everywhere. When I became a mother for the second time, I began to calm down a lot. At this time, I realized that a child was raised according to books because my mother was inexperienced; The second child is a pig because my mother doesn't panic anymore. As an experienced person, I took stock of the "chicken ribs" maternal and child products I used.

For many families, the stroller can be pushed wherever it goes, and it is labor-saving and convenient without taking the children. I thought the same thing when I raised my first child, but after using it several times, especially after the child accidentally refused once, I never touched it again.

To sum up, the stroller has the following inconveniences:

Whatever you do, look at the stroller first.

When you go out to buy food, you should protect the stroller with one hand and stare at it with the other. Because there have been cases where old people pushed strollers out to buy food and then turned to pay, and there have also been cases where bad people approached. After pushing the baby out, the mother's heart is really strained. It's not as easy as the belt on your shoulder.

There are security risks.

At that time, Eva was just over seven months old. I wash dishes in the kitchen and Eva plays in the stroller. Before the dishes were washed, I heard a plop, which scared me to throw them away. The child fell to the ground crying. Fortunately, the floor mat is paved, and it's nothing. But it still made me feel scared and blamed myself, and I never used a stroller again.

Play with the baby when you are free. I have something to do, and the baby doesn't play by himself, and no one is watching, so he carries a strap behind him. Anyway, I dare not put the baby in the stroller alone again.

In addition, some baby carriages are unstable and easy to roll over. If you really want to buy a stroller, you must choose one with safe and reliable quality.

Not conducive to parent-child interaction

Taking the baby out is a good opportunity for early education and a good opportunity for parent-child interaction. Put the baby in the stroller, the baby can only see the top of the stroller when lying down, and the baby has limited vision when sitting. Moreover, children and caregivers have no physical contact and no sense of security. If the outside world is slightly different, it is easy to be frightened.

Having a baby is different. You can chat with your baby, talk about what you see together, touch his little body, and Doby him, the baby will be very happy and can receive the information transmitted to him sensitively. Moreover, adults carry children on their backs, and children have a broad vision, which can get more external stimuli and promote brain development.

Add complementary food to the baby and buy a cooking machine specially. At that time, I was very proud and felt that I would never have to worry about all kinds of complementary foods again. But the ideal is full and the reality is skinny. After several uses, the cooking machine completely put the dust in the corner.

On the one hand, I am not the kind of person who is very diligent. I toss all kinds of pasta, fancy dishes, steamed buns and wonton for my baby every day. Secondly, eating habits are really difficult to change.

Being in the south, the staple food is rice porridge, and pasta is basically a snack. Steamed steamed buns to wrap jiaozi or something, not necessarily once every six months. You don't need a cooking machine to make ordinary complementary food. When cooking complementary food, add meat and vegetables and chop them with a knife. Children eat less and operate easily. It's very troublesome to use the cooking machine and finally clean it.

With the growth of children's age, the cooking machine is becoming less and less tasteless. After all, the more children come, the higher the acceptance of food. Moreover, large pieces of food are more helpful for children to exercise oral muscles during chewing and prepare for later speaking.

The chicken ribs of soybean milk machine are similar to those of cooking machine. Bought a bunch of ingredients, and finally put raw bugs. The most devastating thing is that once I gave my child a whole red jujube peanut paste, and the child ate it all. But the baby was angry and didn't like to eat much for the next few days.

After giving birth to a second child, I will never use a soymilk machine to make rice paste again. They are all bought in maternal and child stores or go to old stores to buy porridge that has been tested by countless mothers and babies. I'm not a nutritionist. It's not reliable to fool around.

At that time, I bought an egg steamer, which is convenient for steaming and boiling eggs. But I used it several times and found a good chicken rib. Steamed custard is often too old, and steamed eggs break easily. The egg custard is steamed in the pot, the heat is controllable, and the middle is heated evenly. The finished product is easy to have a tender and delicious taste, and the whole process will not take long.

The smoothest strap I use is a long strap. I'm not used to this kind of front belt. When the baby is too young, the strap will knock on the baby. When the baby is older, it is inconvenient to walk and do things.

A long strap is different. When the baby is young, it is wrapped in the back and front, so the baby will not be tired. When the baby is older, change the back directly. Convenient and easy. The belt in front turned into chicken ribs.

Dabao didn't understand at that time. When he saw toys, he really wanted to buy them for him. Sound and photoelectric toys are beautiful, such as early childhood poems, and naturally become the first choice. After I realized how powerful it is, I couldn't wait to give myself a big chestnut.

Acousto-optic toys have many dazzling lights and harsh sounds, which are unfriendly to immature children. When a child goes for an eye examination, the doctor specifically tells him not to show his children electronic products too early or too long, and not to buy him photoelectric toys. This is bad for children's eyesight. I rarely bought it after that. Speaking of Bauer, his toys are either possessions or ordinary toys.

Walker is also a chicken rib. On the one hand, it is easy to turn over, on the other hand, the child's physiological development law does not need the assistance of a walker. Dabao used a walker, slipped around, accidentally overturned the car and hit the table, which was useless. By the second child, I had never used a walker from beginning to end. Dabao learned to walk two months after his first birthday, while Bauer learned to walk at his first birthday party.

Bauer was all right, so he let himself climb, crawl around, stand up gradually, and then walk slowly with the furniture wall. Encourage your family. When excited, I will take a few steps by myself when I am almost one year old. Then I walked more and more vigorously, and I walked well at the banquet in the first year.

What maternal and child products should be used with the baby, in fact, has a lot to do with personal habits with the baby. Novice mothers must keep calm and don't buy maternity products just because they love their children as much as I do. You can choose parenting products according to the living environment and habits in your area. Appropriate maternity products can make baby care get twice the result with half the effort.