Today, we will talk to you about how to educate our daughter so that she can grow up healthily. There are four things. The earlier parents educate their daughters, the better for them.
First, teach your daughter self-respect and self-love.
When children are young, parents must teach them to respect others, and don't think highly of themselves, thinking that they are little princesses, and the whole world needs to revolve around her. Such girls will only be more disrespectful when they grow up, and of course they will not be respected by others. Even some people who don't like her will do things that hurt her.
Although the conditions for children to grow up are very good now, especially girls, who are held and spoiled, parents still have to educate their children that they can live a princess's life, but they can't have a princess's illness, because society treats everyone equally. To get the respect of others, we must first respect others, not just girls. Everyone is the same.
Second, let her realize the difference between men and women as soon as possible.
The news that girls are sexually assaulted is not uncommon in society, and it has also attracted many parents' attention to their children's sex education. It is especially important for children to know the difference between men and women early and tell them which parts can't be touched at will.
Generally speaking, children will have a preliminary understanding of boys and girls when they are about three years old. At this time, they may ask some strange questions. Parents should try their best to tell them the differences in the languages they understand, instead of avoiding them blindly.
Third, raise awareness of self-protection.
Nowadays, many parents have this awareness, telling their children to stay away from strangers outside and tell their parents in time when they get home; Politely refuse what a stranger gives, even if it looks like a good person, it can't be eaten easily; If you are in trouble or lost, you should ask your uncle and aunt in uniform for help. ...
For parents, educate their children to know some knowledge of self-protection as early as possible, so that children can realize that not everyone in this society is good. While maintaining a kind and sincere heart, we should also have a heart of awe and prevention.
Fourth, let the daughter learn some self-defense skills.
It is said that it is harmful to people, but it is also necessary to prevent people, especially girls, whose physical strength is inherently weaker than that of boys. If they are in a weak position in the struggle, they will not be easily bullied when they grow up, and they can also protect the people around them. If they have a skill, it will also make girls more confident. Therefore, it is necessary for girls to learn some self-defense skills from childhood.