I saw a report about the children of Beijing programmers in my circle of friends. Many programmers who worked in Xi 'erqi settled in Huilongguan, which is far from the subway station. The children of these programmers took part in the college entrance examination this year and achieved very good results. 9 people scored above 650 points, 57 people scored above 600 points, and the online rate was close to 70%. The children of these programmers turned the house their parents had worked so hard to buy into a school district.
With good economic conditions, we can naturally have better educational conditions, but money is not the primary condition to determine the quality of education, but family education is.
Have you set an example by educating your child to be a kind and upright person and teaching him what kind of behavior a decent person should have? Do you spend more time with your children, reading, drawing and playing games, which is really effective companionship? These are the foundations of education, and they are free.
If you can't give your child a school district, you can give your child a small study; You don't have to attend all kinds of ten thousand yuan training courses, but you can study the course system of the training courses you think is good, and then find suitable teaching AIDS and picture books according to the courses to play with your children at home.
There is a passage in Jim Treize's reading manual:
You may have unlimited wealth, boxes of jewels and boxes of gold. But you will never be richer than me. I have a mother who reads to me.
The most expensive thing is not the school district, but the careful companionship of parents every day. The difference in education quality, except money, is the difference in family education. If you don't have a lot of money, you can spend a lot of heart. Intention is the foundation of family education.
For a while, I read the poisoned chicken soup about having no money to have children, and it was difficult to calm down. I am firm and persistent in my life, but I thought a lot about children after being scared for a few words.
Wondering if I didn't spend time with my parents? Is it too late for English enlightenment? Is it wrong not to attend early education? I even wonder if I was wrong to go out to work. Especially before the child was one and a half years old, reading such an article once had a feeling of being hit in the face.
Later, when I was talking to my mother about my psychological pressure, she told me very readily: "Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, so they should do whatever they have to do."