Let them grow up with their children, which is an unavoidable journey for everyone. After the birth of a child, apart from the joy of being a parent for the first time, countless confusions follow. How to hold the baby? How to feed the children? How to change diapers? Many young parents are caught off guard and can't solve the problems such as why their children always cry.
And parenting education is their lifeline. Some people say that children's early education is effective, but they don't know that early education is actually more for parents to see and tell them how to educate and raise their children. Let young parents take less detours and take the right path. Let them repay the custody of their children. Busy life, hurried steps. In this era of rapid social development and faster pace of people's lives, everyone seems to be in a hurry and keep moving. Everyone's 24 hours are regarded as 48 hours. People who go to work and school are busy all the time. Among them, the busier the parents are, the more lonely the baby at home is.
Adults often say: I did it for you. Excuses like this, and ignore the baby's growth. And this can also reflect a major problem of parents in today's society-the pace of work is getting faster and faster, so fast that it is impossible to take care of life and children. Based on the current situation of social development, the word trusteeship came into being. Parents don't have time to take care of their children, and parents can't help? It doesn't matter, there are custody classes. The child is too young to know how to take care of it.
Psychologists say that when the baby 1-2 years old, he likes to jump up and down, which is very naughty. This is a very common thing. The baby is lively and active, which may be to attract others' attention, which may be caused by temperament type or bad living habits. For a lively and active baby, sometimes we just need to use our brains skillfully and consider the problem from the baby's point of view, and everything will be solved.
Small ways to get along:
1. Pay more attention to the real needs of naughty babies.
Some parents are very busy at work, have little time to accompany their children, and pay little attention to their feelings and psychological changes. Parents' busyness and forgiven indifference may unconsciously hurt children's little hearts. Children are too active and crazy in front of their parents, and sometimes they just want their parents' attention, recognition and even comfort. So, spend more time with your children and kneel down to listen to their thoughts. When the child is noisy, communicate patiently with the child, and the child will snuggle up to you happily and cleverly.
2. Active is a child's temperament type, and it is handled with a normal heart.
Many little guys are naturally lively and active, and such children are extroverted. If properly guided, they will also form a lively personality when they grow up. In view of the fact that children are active and naughty when they are young, parents should not make too much fuss and keep a normal heart. As long as they ensure the safe and healthy growth of their children, there is nothing wrong with being lively.
Some mothers may worry about naughty and active babies and have no patience to do things. Don't worry, when the baby can persist in completing one thing or make a little progress, parents should encourage and help the baby to build self-confidence and gradually cultivate self-control ability. Don't make your baby sit still, criticize repeatedly, or let him "sit alone" as a punishment, which will make him rebellious and become more restless.
3. Help your baby develop good habits.
It is very important to help hooligans form good habits. Take sleep habits as an example: some babies are particularly energetic and active, especially at night, and don't want to sleep. At this time, it is very important to help naughty people develop sleep patterns.
Sleep regularly, don't indulge your child too much, find out the reasons for refusing to go to bed, and take targeted measures to let him go to bed as soon as possible. For example, parents should set an example and don't delay sleeping time because of watching TV, work and entertainment, so that children won't go to bed.
Don't indulge your child too much and make him too excited to go to bed. It should be noted that parents should gradually master the performance of children's sleep, and it is best to let children go to bed as soon as they are sleepy, instead of waiting until they are very tired, so as to gradually cultivate the habit of children falling asleep on time.
Once you have established the habit of falling asleep on time, don't easily destroy the established sleep rules because of some small things.
4. Let the naughty baby fully exercise.
For those naughty babies who jump up and down, every day, we should arrange enough time for them to enjoy activities, such as outdoor sports and play. It is best to exercise until you are exhausted, so that your baby's extra energy can be fully vented, and then try to arrange some quiet activities, read a book with your baby and listen to a piece of music. These are all good ways to calm your baby down.
5. Overcome the baby's naughty activity through games.
Games are very popular with babies. Some games can keep babies from losing control because of "madness" on the premise of sufficient activity. Many games can help your baby overcome the habit of being active, naughty and uncontrollable. For example, games such as hide-and-seek and Woodenhead can not only help the baby learn to be "silent" well, but also cultivate a good parent-child relationship, so that the baby can realize that it is also fun in life to stop making noise and running wildly, and occasionally play games quietly.
6. Cultivate concentration and don't disturb your baby easily.
Naughty babies should pay special attention to the cultivation of concentration. Some hooligans are much smarter than other babies of the same age. Small brains react quickly, but it is difficult to sit down and do one thing for a long time, and attention needs to be cultivated. Parents are advised not to interrupt the baby at will when doing things, try to reduce the stimulation of the surrounding environment to the baby, let the child do one thing before doing another, and cultivate the child's concentration.
Children are born by themselves and have to be raised by themselves. A mother knows her children best. Under the condition of ensuring science, how to raise and teach children is your own business, and don't be overly influenced by others. Don't be influenced by the old people's ideas. What you have to do is to keep learning and growing yourself, so as to counter more traditional and even pseudo-scientific parenting ideas.
Being a mother also makes perfect. No one knows and loves your children better than you. Take good care of your children and let them grow up healthily!