I carried it alone until Xuanxuan was two years old. When she was 25 months old, I wanted to relax. Since I said I would send her to kindergarten, many people have come to persuade me that she is too young. I am very upset about this: my daughter and I have lived at home for two years and have never been separated from her. Suddenly I went to kindergarten separately. Can she adapt?

Finally, I convinced myself.

Analyze whether children have the conditions to go to kindergarten.

1 When a three-year-old sends her to kindergarten, the child will still experience the anxiety of being separated from her parents and even get seriously ill. Just send it to kindergarten to advance the process.

2. I will find a kindergarten with a good teacher-student environment and better soft and hard conditions to ensure that she doesn't have to worry too much about life and make her interested in collective life. Some public kindergartens may not take good care of every child.

3. Xuan has two foundations to help her attend classes independently:

First, she can sleep in a room alone, and she can sleep by herself when she is very young, and her independence is stronger than that of ordinary children;

Second, she has long been used to attending early education classes and is not afraid of teachers and classmates.

Of course, I think if conditions permit, it is better to wait until the children are older before sending them to kindergarten. Because too young children can't fully express what they want to do and can't communicate well with teachers.

Even a talking baby like my daughter can only speak some simple words. When she comes home, she can't tell me how her day went.

Helping children overcome their fear of kindergarten is a problem that every family has to face. However, I was the most anxious person on the first day of seeing Mary off.

I have taken Xuan to this kindergarten three times and told her that she will have a class alone today. She skipped to class with the teacher and didn't cry at all.

Even so, I still don't trust, carefully staring at the monitoring of the hall screen, and occasionally running to the door of the classroom to eavesdrop and peek. In order not to let her find out, I squatted on the ground and looked through the gap in the opaque sticker on the door. If this ugly behavior is discovered, I will probably consider myself a trafficker.

Xuan didn't cry in class. But during the nap, no matter whether the teacher held her or put her on the bed, she couldn't sleep in a strange environment, and finally the whole corridor was filled with her crying voice. Finally, she stayed up to play in the corridor, but she stopped crying.

My heart ached, and I was afraid that all my efforts would be in vain after she found out, so I had to leave first and tell myself that it would be useless to stay here.

When she rolled on the ground, I didn't hug her, but said calmly, "When Mary gets up, mom will hug her." After saying it several times, she stopped howling and got up to let me hug her. The next day, she stopped crying when she went in and was obedient all day. But from the third day, she knew something was wrong. She cries when she goes to kindergarten, even when the car stops at the door.

I keep in close contact with my teacher. The teacher will also record the daily situation of Xuan in the notebook and send the photos to the APP, which also makes me feel at ease.

Finally, four days later, she stopped crying and ran to the teacher's arms happily every day. When I pick her up, I will say loudly, "Goodbye, teacher, my mother has come to take me home!" " "

Xuan's sense of security has been re-established, which is inseparable from my efforts. Of course, the teacher's concern is also indispensable. It can be seen that she likes the class teacher with a sweet smile and always takes the initiative to hold the teacher's hand.

Children are actually more adaptable to the new environment than we thought. In fact, in foreign countries, children go to kindergarten even earlier than in China, and many children will go at the age of one.

What should I do if my child is sick at school?

My suggestion is that if she is ill, let her have a good rest and don't force her to study. Although tuition fees will hurt and taking care of sick children will be tiring, nothing is more important than children's physical and mental health. At home, children can get more careful care, get better soon and feel more comfortable.

More importantly, resting at home can prevent the disease from spreading to others. We don't want other children to go to school sick and infect their own children, so we should take care of each other!

Jessica Hester Hsuan likes the teachers and children in the kindergarten class very much now, and even becomes the big sister in the class. The teacher said that when the other children came home, they all shouted Mary's name. When other children cry, she will run to comfort them! Compared with at home, her self-care ability and emotional intelligence have really improved a lot, and she speaks English better.